Is it normal rather be alone than in a bullshit relationship

I had a relationship like that,I didn't hold on for long. I believe the same thing and I fought for a little while because I loved him so much. he became very possessive and protective of me,not to mention JEALOUS,we've been apart for about 3 months now,and he seems to be back to his old self. It makes me miss him sometimes,but no way would I ever deal with BULLSHIT again. I'm glad somebody else feels the same about this! :) I'm perfectly happy single or in a relationship.

A girl with confidence...a rare specimen specimen indeed.

This is so me! Its waayyyy better to be single than in a terrible relationship out of fear of being alone. It's pathetic really when you see couples that are miserable and are seething with hatred and jealousy towards each other but they aren't strong enough to break it off.

You need to change your thinking. Every female thinks she can change a player but it's the girl who really needs to change . because every player is on a mission to find that one girl that stops his desire .

I feel exactly the same. Being single is better than being with someone who is abusive, right? I'd say it's much better.

Too many times I have seen people stay in a disaster of a relationship where neither person is happy. And I've found it's usually the same thing, which would be the guy treating the girl like shit, yet she stays with him and he uses her. Baffles me.

Your question should have been a statement. What's the point of getting hurt for no good reason anyways? And dealing with drama and all the bullshit that comes with it.

You're just smart is all.

Hey go you.

Your concepts also apply to other relationships as well, not just boyfriend/girlfriend ones. For instance, I try not to associate myself with people who have a bad nature.

I agree with you.

But try not to be so harsh in your judgment of those who do because you don't really know what it's like for them and it's not usually as simple for them as what you've laid out in your post.

I agree with you completely. So many people hang onto bad relationships just because they are terrified of being alone. If being alone is better then I go for that.