Is it normal porn makes me insecure i am not good at sex?

my friend in my college really likes me, shes like the marriage type. we made out a few times and i like her back but i avoid dating her because i dont have enough experience in sex, i am only average size. like what if she is disappointed having sex with me but likes me too much to leave me. i dont want her to be unhappy her whole life?

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  • RoseIsabella

    Oh honey child, ain't nothing wrong with average size; average size is perfect! If you want to get good at sex with someone you care about let her teach you and do what pleases her. If you want to be a sorry ass muthafucka be an egocentric, prideful, selfish pig who watches too much God damn stupid pornography. Seriously, just pay attention and treat the one you love with respect and affection and you will be deserving of all the best life has to offer.

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    • thank you this makes me feel better. i will try to do that

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  • Nickvey

    the best teacher is experience, any woman worth her salt in the bed room will train you to please her. everyone of them is different . all rules go out the fucking window when it comes to sex. or you can stay gay and leave more pussy for me.

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  • Boojum

    I bet you don't speak like the characters in Hollywood films, or look like them either.

    Porn is entertainment, and it's about as real as a Bruce Lee fight scene. What you see when you watch porn is a highly-edited version of reality, performed by people who have been specially chosen to do the job.

    When you do have sex, don't try to replicate what you've seen in porn. If you try those moves, you are indeed likely to end up a girlfriend who thinks you're pretty shit at sex.

    If you want to go into sex less than totally clueless, spend some time reading serious and reputable sex advice websites. For example, did you know it is a fact that most women can't reach orgasm by penetration alone? Research manual and oral stimulation techniques, and spend plenty of time with those when you're naked with your girlfriend. Figure out how to give her amazing oral, and it's likely she wouldn't give a damn if you had a four inch dick.

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  • JonathanOo

    Unless she watches what you do, it's not likely she will ever know. Your fretting over your own insecurities. Ignore them and let her have what she wants. That's what'll make her happy

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    • what do you mean let her have what she wants?

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      • JonathanOo

        You said she really likes you. If so you can both move forward in your relationship and do more intimate activities. Just make sure its what SHE wants. If you don't know yet, you'll have to ask her. And find out where you two are heading (as a couple I guess)

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  • You don't have to have a large penis to be good at sex. You also don't have to be good at sex right away. If you're both young, she probably hasn't had good sex yet, either, if at all. You also don't have to marry the first person you have sex with. It's okay to just experiment with someone you like who likes you back.

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