Is it normal or wrong to talk to a 13 year old?

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Well I started talking to a girl about 2 weeks ago. She is skinny and very good looking I thought she was 17-18. Im 19 and she doesnt look her age at all. She is VERY mature for her age but after a week of talking to her. I found out she is 13 almost 14. This scared me cause im in no way a pedo but I feel like just because of her age that other people will think its very weird. Is it normal for a 19 year to talk to a 13 year old? She has been kinda suggestive towards sexual things but I kinda play it off.

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PrincessLollipop

12 years ago

If I were you, I would find a new LEGAL girl to talk to. There are plenty of girls out there that you can have a relationship with that won't cost you your life in prison. D:

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honeybeee

12 years ago

whatever you do ,don't meet her! it's a trap!

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lufa

12 years ago

I've been hit on by sexy teenage girls before-it's surprising how bold young girls are nowadays. It's very cute and flattering-but it's not worth going to jail for so I keep a healthy distance.

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Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress

12 years ago

talking only is one thing

But you're fooling yourself if you say she's "mature for her age". That's just a cop-out that people use to justify having sex with minors.

I mean... how "mature" can she really be if she's still sucking off of mommy & daddy for her "income". No matter how worldly she may talk, she's never supported herself so she doesn't really know the truth about being an adult.

What she has is a child's vision of what adulthood should be, which may look mature but... it's just ideas without the wisdom of experience.

In other words keep it at friendship until she's 18. And yes by then she may have outgrown her feelings for you too... but that's OK. That's part of growing up and is natural.

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PatientZero

7 years ago

stay away from it, it will only bring you trouble.
there are too many people with smart-devices, cameras, access to social media. She may be mature beyond her years, not everyone else is, this is the Age of Snitches, if she's worth throwing your entire life away over (with no real guarantee of anything from her) there's nothing anyone can say to convince you otherwise.
stay away from it.

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DameInDistress

11 years ago

I should know, I'm quite young and I talk to someone a bit older than me but it's not sexual so it's okay. You can have a decent conversation you know!=D

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DameInDistress

11 years ago

It's wrong if the conversation's sexual. However, you can talk to someone of whatever age as long as the conversation is chaste. =)

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Queenofdacastle

11 years ago

What's your name?

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Avant-Garde

12 years ago

Don't do it. Find a someone that's of legal age. You don't want to sit in a jail cell and have your name tarnished, do you?

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  12 years ago
  
  She had a bf that was 18 and I know they had sex all the time cause she told me so.
  
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Charmo

12 years ago

Holy crap, you must be a fucking kid-diddler, TALKING to that innocent, young child of 13! </sarcasm>
Seriously, what's the problem? Talking to people is neither illegal nor immoral.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  12 years ago
  
  Yeah but totally different when she is talking about sex to you and stuff lol
  
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rin

12 years ago

Don't do anything with her until she's 18. Depending on where you live, she or her mom/dad could rat you out. You never know.

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Anonymous Post Author

12 years ago

Its not a trap cause I know her and she lives in my town like 2 miles from me. She can still be mature for her age. I can go on how a 13 year old can be mature cause I was one but I wont. You really have to know how 13 year olds act today and compare them to her and she is not like that at all.

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- Gelmurag
  
  12 years ago
  
  When I was 23 I feel in love with a girl whom was 13 at the time. She was my neighbor and quite honestly probably one of the best people I have ever spent time with. We had talked about sex and although we did fool around some, we agreed to not have sex until she was legal.
  
  Now before the naysayers/shunners get involved I'll explain about her. Her mother was heavily abused when she was young. From 8-13 her mother had been locked in a doggy cage, fed dogfood, and used as a sex slave. (the girl's aunt was too, but her aunt was sane) This caused the mother to become over-protective of her daughter as well as a diagnosed schizophrenic, bipolar depressed alcoholic. (the girl showed me the paperwork, and I witnessed the mother drinking a gallon of vodka in a 24 hour period of time.)
  
  A majority of the time, the daughter took care of her mom. Cleaning the house, doing laundry and her homework, taking care of her little brother, cooking for them, and even paying some of the bills online. She was also in advanced classes, and a straight A student. Pretty impressive when you really think about it.
  
  The mother became super paranoid over us spending time together. The daughter had some sinus surgery one week and the mother coming home drunk began screaming at her daughter making her cry. She ran over to where I was living to call her step-dad (they were separated but still together) to come control her mom. The mother blamed me for her arrest and forbid the girl and myself from ever talking. (The girl told me "if you ever talk to me again I'll call someone" but I'm pretty sure it was because she was afraid of her mom, since she liked me very much also) A few weeks later as I was getting ready to go home for the summer, the mother told me I should keep in touch. I didn't.
  
  I still wonder about her, we often talked about when she turned 18 and looking each other up, but now that she is 18 I'm almost scared to look her up or make contact. It was a very intense few months together that I still haven't found anyone similar.
  
  Anyway the point I was making with that rant is not all 13 year olds are immature. A lot of the immaturity has to do with how they are raised. So although our snap judgement is "she's to young" (and I agree, 95% of them are) maybe this is one of those special cases.
  
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  - Anonymous Post Author
    
    12 years ago
    
    At least someone can kinda see my side of the story. I agree that not all 13 year olds can be mature. I myself had to grow up fast when my parents divorced when I was 11. I cut grass,cleaned the pool,did general household repairs,did laundry and cleaned the house I did this till I was 17. It was my work before I would do anything with friends. I was the man of the house and I took that seriously. I can honestly say at 19 I wouldnt be the man I am if it wasnt for my parents divorce.
    
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Thereisnogod

12 years ago

Same thing happened to me. I suck at the age guessing thing. I cut off contact because I was scared and I don't enjoy sitting in a jail cell unfortunately. However I would have fucked the shit out her given the chance of having a get out of jail free card.

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Spooky_Dino

12 years ago

If I were you I would toot it and then boot it

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