Is it normal or is this verbal abuse?
My father will yell and swear at me and bitch me out on a lot of stuff. Sometimes just for no reason. It hurts my feelings, usually makes me cry later on or on the spot, and makes me feel like shit. A few examples-
I washed his car but said it wasnt good enough because i missed a couple bugs on the grill. Although the rest was sparkling. He yelled and sweared at me.
I have B in one of my classes (the rest I have A's) he yells and bitches on how I'm a failure and a dissapointment.
I had a skiing accident and broke a leg. He blamed me for breaking it on purpose because I wanted attention. Nobody in their right mind would purposely break a leg. Its not fun. He then proceeded to yell, I started crying and he then said I was a pussy and deserved to break more than a leg
Most recently, he took me to lunch with me, he started yelling and more in the restaurant (I was having an extremely bad day and had been crying). He said I was "fucking worthless and no better than dirt." and I "deserve to live with hobos"
These arent the only times. This happens quite often. My friend said it could be considered verbal abuse but i had never though it like that. So is it verbal abuse?
PS: sorry for it being so long.
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