Is it normal or even possible for a woman to cum "too fast"?

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I've had issues in the past with this, guys think "a woman griping about cumming "too fast"? She's either lying, trolling or seeking attention" but this is legit because if you knew how men/women acted towards this notion, it wouldn't be a picnic :/

Lemme set the scene
Having sex and Pop! But either A. You gotta be with someone that believes you and appreciates it (have yet to) or like 99.9% of my encounters "you're a liar" and the mood is no longer set and the person you're with thinks you're timing for faking it was off and now they caught you in a lie.

Most of the time i just act like I'm aroused but the evidence is there when it's too wet and we keep going.
I've had people think i peed on them to act like i came quick. Its a nightmare.

So my question, is it normal or even POSSIBLE for a Woman to be a premature cummer/ejaculator or what have you.

Ps. Sometimes i can hold off until about 2 songs worth so estimating 6-7 mins but most of the time it's 1.5-3mins :(

Idk what to do. I've tried tantric, tying to think of things that aren't sexual etc but to no avail.
I don't wish to have orgasm issues where i can't seem to get off but maybe a happy medium.

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  • MisterPapaya
    5 years ago

    There is absolutely nothing wrong with a girl cumming fast. As a man I take it as a compliment actually. Also, since most women can reach multiple orgasms then thst means the night is still far from over.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      5 years ago

      Lol, i shall await my rebuttal for my secondary IIN post :))

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  • Boojum
    5 years ago

    Short answer to your headline question: no.

    I know it doesn't reduce your exasperation at how it works for you, but there are literally millions of women in the world who find reaching an orgasm a lengthy and often challenging process. Your hair-trigger just happens to mean you're the reverse of women who have that problem.

    Your sexual response is unique to you, and you shouldn't ever let anyone try to tell you you're doing it wrong or attempt to invalidate or belittle what you feel. Is your superpower the ability to always pick totally stupid dickheads to have sex with? Any guy who says that you haven't experienced what you say you've experienced has to be an incredibly ignorant, arrogant asshole.

    Unless she were to say, "Right, I've come now. We're done here, dude, GTFO!" I'd be thrilled to be with a woman who came almost immediately, and I'd do whatever I could to keep her coming. There are few things in the world as beautiful as a woman in the throes of orgasm.

    When it comes to problems with the female orgasm, it's usually a matter of finding positions and techniques that maximise stimulation of the clitoris. I guess what you need to do is find ways to minimise it.

    You can try some solo experiments, but I think what you really need to do is find a partner who respects you, listens to you, is willing to be guided by your requests, and who's grownup enough to enjoy being with a woman who comes very easily. He also needs to be smart enough to understand that all women are not the same, and you're unusual in a very nice way.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      5 years ago

      Hmmm idk I've only chosen in the past nicer guys, some even too sensitive for my taste lol, but i guess they all have been with women who either a. Faked it or b. Took forever and a day to cum.
      My current lover who is my husband sometimes thinks I'm faking but for the most part just tries to.keep himself going since when my orgasm alert goes off it almost brings him to the brink.
      Luckily I'm multiple orgasmer as well but ever since i was in my teens, a washcloth or have towel is a necessity, even when solo :/

      I was kinda bummed to see 0% normal votes, since i was hoping maybe one would say normal but perhaps time will change that.

      Or i can Just embrace my abnormality. Despite it's occasional issues. Nothing is perfect i suppose.

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  • TerriAngel
    5 years ago

    Enjoy it.
    How many guys wish cumming early was just the entre.
    6 courses and dessert to go. :-)

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