Is it normal or creepy when an older man only wants significantly younger women

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Is it normal or creepy when an older man only wants significantly younger women? To me it's one thing if you happen to fall for someone who is significantly younger or older than you (significantly 15-30+ older or younger), but it's another thing to me if that's all you're looking for. I think it's creepy and for older men who go after very young women solely I think it's distasteful. What do you think?

There's nothing wrong with only chasing after much younger women 16
It's creepy and distasteful to only go after much younger women 21
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  • (s)aint
    7 years ago

    To me personally it´s disgusting. Especially when these creeps whine about never finding anyone when they only go for the hot teenagers whilst they look like chubby fuglies themselves.

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    • forgotusernameagain
      7 years ago

      Exactly!

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  • RoseIsabella
    7 years ago

    It sure as He'll ain't normal when a gezzer chases after youth like dog going after a piece of meat. Why on Earth would it be normal? It's not normal, and never will be.

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    • sillygirl77
      7 years ago

      Good analogy

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      • RoseIsabella
        7 years ago

        Thanks, my silly friend!
        :-)

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  • Lvl7GoblinRogue
    7 years ago

    I hate old dudes that try to perv on younger women. Stay far away from me if you're into that.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      7 years ago

      Me too!

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  • sillygirl77
    7 years ago

    It is distasteful as you put it if a guy or a woman specifically go after people only much younger than them.

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  • bobobob
    7 years ago

    It's predatory.

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    • forgotusernameagain
      7 years ago

      Very. Especially when they refuse to accept a 'no' for an answer.

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  • mysistersshadow
    7 years ago

    Its normal that older guys want younger women. Younger women tend to have better bodies and there a trophy for the guy to parade around to show how awesome he is. As to if its creepy or not thats a matter of opinion. Doesn't make any difference to me its not my problem.

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    • Robyn100
      7 years ago

      This is not true. I know many older women that have much better bodies than younger girls (they have boobs and hips, not just large rear ends).

      The problem with these older men that like very young females is that Hugh Heffner and others guided a whole generation of men to believe that women are only attractive between the ages of 15 an 23. This was in the late 1950's when our culture began to worship youth.

      Heffner is also responsible for the fake blonde hair craze which also symbolizes youth but looks trashy in my opinion.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      7 years ago

      You're probably a younger woman. You're going to get old and less desirable one day. Let's see how you like it them when you're bitter and alone.

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      • mysistersshadow
        7 years ago

        Younger than some older than others what does that have to do with men and there attitudes? Its not my problem becos I have no intetest in dating some one that much older and I don't hate on others for there preferences or choices. If your not either of the ppl in the relationship its none of your business what they like or what they do. I suspect your venom is due to you being older and the men you are interested in aren't interested in you. Thats unfortunate but theres really nothing you can do about it except look for men without that view about younger women. I'm sure you have things that you find attractive or desirable and thats fine no one should be hating on you for your preferences either.

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          7 years ago

          Thanks for the psychoanalysis. How much do I owe you quack?

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          • mysistersshadow
            7 years ago

            I'm sorry your have difficulty dealing with reality. You owe yourself the acceptance of the fact that if you ask a question on a public website you may get replies that don't sit well with your personal views. It would also be a good step in the direction of personal happiness to not lash out at ppl that have done nothing but express a opinion. It seems as if anger and bitterness are your only companions.

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  • Holzman_67
    7 years ago

    I don't know, I know older men like that and I kind of feel sorry for them. They can only see obvious beauty there is a world of subtle beauty out there as well. Like a 50 year old woman who has a way of holding herself, a gentle disposition or an alluring laugh. Some men just can't see it.

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  • pizzabrowniesushi
    7 years ago

    i don't think its normal unless you are an alpha male with a huge ego that doesn't care if you are getting the stink eye from everyone .I would be bored on a date with a 19 year old. I don't know what we would say to each other.

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  • Sunshinegirl
    7 years ago

    It's is only creepy if the older man is being creepy. If the women like him, if he is popular with women, if they enjoy him, then there is nothing creepy. What is creepy is when any one of any age is clueless and "chases" persons who don't want anything to do with him, or her.

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  • Mountiesfan
    7 years ago

    There is nothing wrong with that at all. Maturity is shown in their actions. It involves consenting adults. Yes, heterosexual single males are attracted to other single ladies. They can be gentlemen as much as any other single man.

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  • [Old Memory]
    7 years ago

    I think its okay as long as its not rape.

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  • MR.mr
    7 years ago

    my dad is into really young women but only sexually he's said himself he has no desire to date a girl that young, they'd have nothing in common. He once said he'd like to fuck a 18 year old but he wouldn't want to even talk to her afterwards.
    If he was looking for someone to date for actual companionship he'd look for someone his own age.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      7 years ago

      That sounds kind of selfish of him. Like he'd be using them. Poor 18 year olds.

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  • xfg20
    7 years ago

    it's okay to hide in the bushes in the park and grab them when they walk by

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