Is it normal only turned on by women yet can only have a hetero relationship?

80% Normal
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I'm a woman and I was sexually abused as a child by an older girl which I considered "my bestfriend" and led to many sexual acts with boys at a young age also.
To this day, I can ONLY be turned on by a woman but I cannot love a woman. I can only feel "butterflys" in my stomach and truly love a man but there bodies are repulsive to me.
is it normal and if so, what would do you think I should do about it?

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80% Normal
Based on 5 votes (4 yes)
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  • shade_ilmaendu
    11 years ago

    You might not want to hear this, but have you considered seeing a therapist to talk about your history? It sounds like you're still carrying around some pretty heavy weight from the trauma you suffered when you were young. Talking to a professional might be the best way for you to overcome these things.

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  • Fabulous
    11 years ago

    Motherfudgepacker I have a long wang.

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  • diaperwolf21
    11 years ago

    Well you went through the same stuff I did as a kid. Sexual abuse is tramatizing, but not permanant. For obvious reasons, Im bisexual. I thought I could have a normal hetero relationship, but whenever I thought of having regular sex I could only think of guys.

    Well, to save time and breath I live a normal life. Im just Bi

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