Is it normal online love

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I've been with someone online for around 7months now. He's tried to leave a couple of times, Over me being paranoid. His phone has recently broke and he was messaging from a family members tablet. But he 'read' my messages then stopped, my messages won't get through now and says his phone has been disconnected. He hasn't emailed me, well he did the first day and now nothing? I can't help but think the worst, what if he isn't coming back? Realises how rubbish I am? Or finds someone else while we aren't talking :'(

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  • Unnormalgirl
    9 years ago

    It still depends on the person i guess..

    I have recently ended a long distance relationship with someone who i met online. It was true love and we loved each other deeply for like almost two years. And we only saw each other once, but it was one of the best moments of my life when I saw him the first time.

    But, kid you not, having someone you cant be with personally is very hard. You dont know what your loved one is doing, what he's been through the day, or let's be frank. You don't even know if he's cheating on you or seeing someone else since you only have texts, chats or video calls as your communication. Trust is your only ammo in this battle. If your trust is low and you feel your armor is getting beat down by doubts, I'm afraid there is no reason anymore for you to continue this.

    Why not tell him what's bothering you? He may or may not tell you truthfully what is happening to him why he is being the way that he is, but atleast he knows.

    Goodluck :)

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  • KeepsakeDoll
    9 years ago

    Since he tried to leave you a few times already then you should probably let the guy go.

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  • Terence_the_viking
    9 years ago

    Yeah coz thats how your parents met.

    Did they not tell you?

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  • stopandthink
    9 years ago

    I tried long distance, it just didn't work out. You see, it's very easy for a dishonest person to hide things and use you to their liking.
    But that's just my experience.

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  • CheyChey
    9 years ago

    The thing with online dating is the fact that communicating through text there is bound to be issues with misinterpreting things. You drive yourself crazy over the fact that they have read your text (holla whatsapp blue ticks) but they haven't replied. You can't read their facial expressions and it just sucks. What I've learned is this, don't build relationships with people with a deep fear that they will leave because that will make you try extra hard and your grip on them will be too strong and chances are it'll ruin what could have been an easy thing. Wait until his phone issues are solved, he went through the effort of trying to text you through a relative's phone? that's a good sign. Stop worrying over what you did or didn't do or what you said or didn't say because If he likes you, truly likes you he'll stay and if not then that's his loss. Goodluck

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  • Arm0se
    9 years ago

    This sounds like true love. I went though the same thing and trust me, often you are worrying about nothing. I cant tell you how many times I didn't talk to her for a few days only to find out it was nothing to do with me ^-^

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      9 years ago

      It's so hard, it's been a week :(

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