Is it normal once a liar always a liar??

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We have all had an ex or current partner lie to us and promised they would never do it but then once in a while find them doing it. The question is, once a liar always a liar? Don't forget to take into account that even we have kept secrets from them, silly ones of course which are in no way detrimental to the relationship. For example, I have lied to them when I have been away from them by saying I'm going to sleep when I have just been awake watching films and having a little time to myself.

The kind of lied I'm on about are secrets, 'dirty' ones if you wish to call it that lol.

Share your stories and what do you consider lying and whether a liar is always a liar

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  • Tarkio
    11 years ago

    It is sad that most girlfriends lie because they don't want to hurt you, or lose what you have. They are sometimes unsure of the new relationship, or the idea of being single, so they don't tell you right away. And then you find out.

    The bad seeds are the girlfriends and boyfriends that are just biding their time with you until someone "better" (more what they are looking for) comes along. That is very wrong. And then when someone "better" does come along, they are insecure about it and keep you in tow.

    They just need to be honest and single. Then
    keep looking until they are sure they have found the right one. And if the current relationship starts to sour, they need to be honest and work on making it better or take the highway.

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    My brother was a liar when we were kids, he lied about almost everything. But I think that it was a conditioned reaction because our father was such a bastard to him. He doesn't lie now that he's an adult and hasn't lived at home since he was 15.

    I could tell a lie to a stranger, but not to a loved one. How do you look someone who you love in the eyes and lie? It's just not possible for me.

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  • Seustewart
    11 years ago

    A liar and a thief are the same in my book. Fuck em both

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  • Boo!
    11 years ago

    Never trust those pathetic lies. If someone lies once then you know not to trust them again period. I've never been in a relationship.

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  • Captain_Kegstand
    11 years ago

    I have been cheated on by almost every girl I have ever dated. Girls around here are scandalous!

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    • blondbond69
      11 years ago

      Are you sure its the girls? Sometimes its hard to look at our own down faults.

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      • moomus
        11 years ago

        This maybe so, but no excuse to be cheated on. If the person has faults you can't live with, then just break up, no need to cheat

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      • Captain_Kegstand
        11 years ago

        The first one leaving me was completely my fault. I was young (20) and immature and did not act like an adult should. Although I wish she would have just left me instead of having a relationship behind my back.

        The second one was because I wouldn't party every single night because I had a job, and she wanted to do nothing but party.

        The third one, I worked, supported her, never lied to her, and never cheated on her. I don't know what caused that. Although I found out later that she has cheated on every single guy she has ever dated.

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        • blondbond69
          11 years ago

          Oh dear god. It was them. I'm sorry to hear all that? That damages egos. :(

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          • Captain_Kegstand
            11 years ago

            Lolz the second two were them. The first one was my fault, I cannot deny that.

            Ya it damages egos, but plenty of other fish in the sea and what not right? lolz

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            • blondbond69
              11 years ago

              Right

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  • dappled
    11 years ago

    I was cheated on in one of the worst ways possible (friends knew but they were older friends of the man she was cheating with, so didn't say anything to me although they all wanted to). I had a ten month relationship, often having nights out with her and eight or nine other people and me being the only one who didn't know.

    The way I saw it (from what she said) is that he was a pervert who was pestering her all the time and trying to split us up. My back was up whenever he was around. It blew up in public and I absolutely savaged him. One of those uncomfortable moments where, afterwards, you've got forty people looking at you in stunned silence.

    Somehow she still managed to talk me around into giving her a second chance, although it took months. And did she eventually do the same thing again? Hell yeah. She ended up with him. Soon after, he and I both found out there had been a third man the whole time. I was done caring and was actually amused that in a very shitty game of pass-the-parcel, I wasn't the one left holding her.

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