Is it normal not to get girl's attention?

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Il try to be fast, When i was younger i suffered abuse and family problems. I grew up watching my parents disfunctional relation and all of it led up to me being a anxious person who didnt know how to interact and love. And since a young age ive been determined to change for a better life. Ive developed my personality alot. And now im a very social person. Now heres the problem, i can make 1000 best friends that are girls, but no one likes me in a relationship sense. But im not ugly. Im not to nice. Im not boring. And the f'ed up thing is all the girls that wanted me as a bestfriens insted of a boyfriend, went for douchebag guys.
whats my problem? Is this normal

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  • FocoUS
    12 years ago

    1. Once you're in the friendzone you're in the friendzone. If a girl rejects you and you cut connections with her you get the "I guess you never were my friend." Some people break through it but for the most part you're a friend.

    2. Douchebags are on their very best behavior at first. And by best behavior I mean their true self is so different that they're fake in the beginning. It sucks but what do you expect from a douchebag?

    These are facts of life I'm sorry.

    If you want to go for a girl don't go for your best friend. Try going for a friend of a friend. Don't do 3 months of getting to know her before a date maybe ask her out after a week. What ever happens remember to be their for your friends.

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    • Grey-Brit
      12 years ago

      Agreed. The only way to avoid this is to let a girl know your interested from the begining. A little flirting and innuendo should be enough.

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  • Indigoviolin
    12 years ago

    You sound like a really nice guy. You should get her when you first meet her - tell the girl you want to be with, your feelings towards her. Also compliment her often (not too much though!). I know this may sound odd, but read some articles on 'how to tell if a guy likes me', and then you can get some tips on how to convey signals to girls which they'll notice. Hope this helps :)

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