Is it normal normal to be abused severely over a broken tv?

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Im at a loss of words. I cant even comfort her with anything more than a hug or a "are you ok."

Never in my life have i seen someone get so mad over a TV.

So.. My niece comes screaming she hears my sister yelling from outside . I go up there and i walk in on my sister getting beaten to a pulp. Hes on top of her choking her and in a split second was on his feet stomping her in her head. Kicking her all over and trying to swing a 8 lb dumbell at her legs.

Not noticing me, he puts the dumbell down and continues choking her. I kick the dumbell several feet away and push him off her with all my might.
He pushes me hard and jumps back on my little sister. So i grab her tiny baby out of the walker and as i walk her toddler and baby to the door he stands up and pushes the toddler to get to me. He punches me in the back of my head. And says to give back his son. Instead i keep walking dragging my toddler niece onto the porch where im met by my mom whos wondering what is happening.

Somehow my sister gets outside and long story short, he pushed my aunt, threatened to knock over my mom (i gave her the baby) (she has osteoporosis) if she didnt give him his son.
He almost got into a knife fight with my aunts son (who had the knife). And the cops came to arrest him. Even though my sister said not to press charges becuz he was gonna move out.

Now.. Ive never loved or lost a tv the way he did. Was his reaction normal?

And... IS HERS? Im SO confused! I asked her how she felt? She told me she felt bad he was in jail surrounded by god knows who, having to sleep in god knows what kind of bed. She broke his tv on accident (he was being disrespectful and she threw her hairspray at him and it hit the tv instead. Broken tv= attack on sis).
And keeps checking jailsites to see if they booked him and for how long.
Me.. Im furious. I wanna bash his head in. Why doesnt she ugh

is it normal ?

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  • Couman
    7 years ago

    Normally I'm in favor of making letting people make stupid decisions, but since he attacked YOU too, you could press charges as well, couldn't you? Something to consider.

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  • RoseIsabella
    7 years ago

    I guess he's some poor white trash who can't afford to buy a TV of his own.

    I'm certainly not a fan of domestic violence, nor am I a fan of the destruction of property or people randomly throwing things at one another. I do think he's white trash, even if he ain't white he still sounds like white trash. Your sister ain't perfect either, because she is with him after all. I personally think people who behave as they both did are mentally weak. I don't really know or understand why she cares what happens to his sorry ass. I guess I'm wondering if there is any history of drug and alcohol abuse in ya'll's family. I'm also wondering if ya'll's parents were abusive or neglectful, toward your sister, you and or each other.

    I personally think that if she doesn't want to press charges against him that you, your aunt and anyone else he assaulted ought to press charges against him and take out a restraining order against him. Basically he should not be allowed to return to the house again ever. While he's currently in jail I think you ought to go through his things to see if he has any illicit drugs, weapons or whatever . Maybe ya'll can turn him in to the police for possession if you find any contraband among his personal belongings?

    I think your sister needs to start seeing a therapist as soon as possible, because she's a danger to herself and her children as long as she's willing to associate with this piece of shit guy.

    Checkout these websites:
    http://coda.org/
    http://www.adultchildren.org/

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      7 years ago

      Me and my sisters mother died when i was 3 months old. She was given up for adoption by force . at age 3. Our mother was an alcoholic. Yes i do drink sometimes on weekends but she doesnt.

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  • sourgrapes
    7 years ago

    No its not bloody well normal.ffs.

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  • Faceless
    7 years ago

    By all means bash his fuckin head in. Get a gun and shoot him in the anus. Tell your sister shes a dumb cunt too.

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  • pantychaffe
    7 years ago

    I saw this movie on Life time

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  • Sarahjaynegurl
    7 years ago

    Call the police or just hit the fucker with an iron frying pan, hard...and in the face.

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  • gavin2885
    7 years ago

    It isn't normal for him to get angry over something so menial. He obviously has problems. Your sister is probably a battered woman. When women are abused like her, they will defend there abuser till the end. It's a cycle of abuse that has to be broken

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  • Sarahjaynegurl
    7 years ago

    This fucker needs to be in jail.

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    • RoseIsabella
      7 years ago

      I hope he gets raped in jail.

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      • Sarahjaynegurl
        7 years ago

        And finger banged like a Stanford girl.

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  • MR.mr
    7 years ago

    that's fucking insane, it was a TV.

    I can see him hitting her, I'm not saying it's right but I'm saying I can see it in the heat of the moment, BUT using a dumbell, pushing a todler, continuing to beat her what the hell?

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