Is it normal no sex
So this is a very similar post to another recent one by someone else but I wanted to share my thougts anonymously so I had to make my own post.
Like the other user my SO and I have hit a patch of extended periods of little-to-no sex. I'm 35 and my wife is 28 and we have 2 small children, which is part of the reason we dont have much sex.
We probably have sex once a month or so. I feel like we have many opportunities, after the kids go to bed or on weekends. But most of the time when I'm in the mood it seems like she isn't. She has spoken to a therapist who even told her that we should be having more sex and that it's important to our relationship but that doesn't seem to motivate her.
I'm certain she loves me just as much as the day we got married and there are no other issues, I just honestly think that she has a very low sex drive.
Now, based on the comments in the other thread I do agree that this is a problem, however there were a few comments about how the male in the relationship will end up cheating if this goes on for too long and I want to say that at least in our situation I would never do that.
Yes I crave intimacy with her pretty much 24/7 but just because she is going through some sort of (hopefully) temporary spell of non-horniness that doesn't immediately mean I have to seek it elsewhere.