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Her excuse is that we're interracial and the kids would be ostracized. I just don't understand why a married woman has a right to do this without her husband's consent.
No right at all. I'd seriously be worried about the state of my marriage if my wife did something like this. I believe it would be a deal breaker for me, because once trust is gone in a marriage, the marriage has little left to stand on.
Her story sounds fishy. I wouldn't think a fertility clinic would inseminate a married woman without her husbands consent. Maybe she was just messing around with a guy of her own race and got pregnant. That makes more sense and it's very inventive. I wouldn't thought of that. You gotta love the Internet.
Uh, she has a right to do it because it's her body? Of course I'm not advocating for it and what she did was wrong, she shouldn't of gone behind your back and did it, but even if she did talk to you about it there's no stopping her if she really wanted to do it.
It sounds like there isn't much trust in your relationship, or you two aren't good at communicating to each other.
At least she didn't go and have sex with another man, and her concerns about potential children may be truthful, although I'd stay wary.
Sit down and have a conversation about it, tell her how you feel and that she should of talked to you about this before going through with it and that you're upset. If she disregards your feelings, she most likely doesn't care for you.
Are you sure the insemination was artificial? I'm amazed that any fertility organisation would do this without the husband's consent, unless she lied to them too?
I'm generally against abortion, but in this case.... She has betrayed your trust. Disgusting. Your wife is either, stupid, incredibly racist, both, or just doesn't respect u at all. You need to make her make an important decision, you or be a single mother. If it was recent, you may ask her to take the pill, i recommend u ask a doctor about what kind of medication would be necessary to abort. She gets herself impregnated by another man and expects u to pay to raise the child without asking u? thats a h*ll no in my book
What a skank. I'd leave her on a whim, but you gotta be careful of getting raped in divorce courts depending where you live.
Not necessarily. Child support works with the assumption that the child is his. Secondly, if the child is not his, then he must have played a fatherly role for a period of time. Long enough for the child itself to recognise him as a father.
And considering that this was done without his knowledge or consent, this case weighs heavily in his favour.
Which is why he needs to leave now. As soon as she has it and he plays daddy, he's on the hook.
He is married to her so simply leaving won't do. Married men are the legal fathers if their wives children by default.
What he needs to do is establish the fact that he is not the biological father ASAP. This can be done by signing an affadavit (that satisfies legal requirements) with his wife or if she is not cooperative, he needs to get a court admissable DNA test done and then have his rights and responsibility terminated.
Then he needs to leave because even if he legally establishes the fact that he is not the dad but stays and raises the kid for enough time he could be back on the hook.
I agree she has a right to do it because it's her body. However her motives are fucked up, why have you married such a cunt?
Because she spread her legs for another man's hard cock to fuck her and put his seed deep inside her fertile pussy and will make you eat her pussy and remind you every time about that cock putting his seed in what was supposed to be your wife and your pussy but somebody else will take good care of her tight pregnant pussy
I hate to say this but this made me feel a bit better about my life. I feel very sorry for you, she absolutely must have cheated, that proceedure is very exspensive. I can't imagine as a married couple you don't have access to her medical insurance information. So seems like you can figure out the truth rather easily.
Going to said clinic isn't going to help because of hippa laws.
Im pretty sure they don't need a husbands consent anyone who thinks that should check the date it's not 1880.
With all that said what a crazy two faced manipulative freak you married. RUN!!!!
Drop her... Normally signs of a failing marriage start on a subtle note. Like sex once a fortnight or petty, consistent, daily arguments.
This though? This is blaring in your face. Firstly, you personally need to go to whatever clinic she had this done and make sure it's real.
I myself can't think of any medical institute in their right mind that would let a married woman do this without her husbands consent.
Face it. Whether she cheated on you or not, the worst part about this is that she expects you to raise someone else's child. AND has no intention of ever having your babies.
You don't have trust and you're definitely not extending your bloodline as is the primary point of reproduction. There's nothing worth saving here. Cut your losses. Even if it is half and a house and a car, it's just not worth it.
wife: "Hi honey, I'm home. Oh by the way, I got artificially inseminated today"
husband: "Oh great! How did it go? It's your body, you know you can do what you like with it. What's for dinner?"
wife: "Turkey basted with semen sauce"
It's not right. Just because you're interracial does not mean your kids would be ostracized
It's disgusting that she's already trying so hard to make her kids sheltered when they don't even exist yet.
Have you entertained the thought that your wife could have been abducted and was experimented on to create a genetically altered human?