Is it normal my wife placed a divorce case for a slap in 14 months.

Wehare married for a year and 2 months and have been very loving and beautiful couple. Yesterday my wife was a little drunk and we had an argument about cooking and I told my mother used to cook in a specific way and she called my mother a mother-f***ing wore I just could not take it and I slapped her. I admit it was a bit hard but just a bit hard because I remember my hand stopped a bit automatically before hitting her I am afraid I never want to hurt her. It just happened.
Now my wife have filed a court case and she demands a divorce and yesterday she called me to tell me that she knows how to extract my property from me and I will pay for what I have done.
I have never hit a girl before and I loved her more than anything else. Can a slap be considered as domestic voilence? Her cheek was red.
I don't care about money. Being my wife she may take all of it I just want her to come back home and I want things to be normal again.

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Comments ( 15 )
  • Boobmaster68

    Don't agree to the divorce. Request counciling. You can drag out a divorce for years. But if she is that quick and unforgiving, she doesn't love you much. Get a lawyer, buddy.

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  • Terence_the_viking

    Pussy. you should never compare your mothers cooking to your wives so fucking stupid.

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  • dytrog

    There is good excuse to strike a woman. Still that was no good excuse for calling the cops or a divorce.
    She and her boyfriend will enjoy your money.

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    • Ellenna

      "Good excuse"? NO SUCH THING

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  • Jujudog

    Sounds like she planned that one well!

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  • 8=====D~~~~~

    Typical womanly behavior. Acting like a petulant child and now as a vindictive bitch.

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  • SweetDreamsRubi

    Idk why everyone's giving you a hard time, I mean you shouldn't of slapped her but she shouldn't of called your mom a whore either. You both need to apologize, I also don't think you did anything wrong comparing the food, my brothers always told their gfs how they liked my mom's food and if they could change their own recipes, it's just preference mostly but I guess she doesn't like your mom...I hope things work out for you but it's definitely not normal she's trying to divorce so quickly..

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    • Ellenna

      Physical assault is NOT the same thing as words .....

      We don't know that it wasn't the 500th time he'd adversely compared her cooking to his mother's and we don't know that his mother isn't a whore either, but irrelevant anyway.

      She apparently can't control her mouth but it's far more serious that he can't control his anger

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      • SweetDreamsRubi

        I don't care, if anyone calls my mom a whore I'm slapping them too.

        She can control her mouth she probably just thought she can mouth off and nothing would ever happen... hitting is bad but you cant go around saying whatever the hell you want and expect no reaction either.

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        • Ellenna

          The relevant thing is that he says it "just happened". Assault doesn't "just happen" and THERE IS NO EXCUSE FOR IT.

          I've worked in the family violence field for decades and that's a common bullshit excuse by violent men: "It just happened" (minimisation) usually coupled with "she provoked me" (blaming the victim) followed by other men approving their violence, as has been seen here, followed by escalation.

          Same old, same old .....

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          • SweetDreamsRubi

            To me he didn't really do anything wrong, but I guess that's just my thinking....

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  • fudgebarr

    you both sound childish. I think instead of divorce separation would be better.I would let her cool off for at least a week.apologize and see a counselor

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  • Ellenna

    It "just happened" did it? It was your hand that slapped her: you may have some hope of getting her back if you acknowledge what you did without pissweak excuses like that and sincerely apologise.

    AND get yourself to an Anger Management group or therapist urgently to prove your commitment to not assaulting her again.

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    • SweetDreamsRubi

      Idk if someone called my mom a whore I'd slap them too... he should just apologize and she should apologize.

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  • The sailor is dead

    You could try apologizing, but it might not change anything at this point

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