Is it normal my wife doesn't turn me on...

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My wife doesn't turn me on. Our sex life is terrible. It's part of the reason I've become a porn/masturbation addict. When we do have sex I can barely stay hard, if at all. I like getting sucked but that's rare too. Also I have a hard time pleasing her when we do have sex, because I'm not into it enough to sex her into an orgasm. The last couple times we just stopped because it wasn't working. This sucks. I still think she's beautiful, but I don't think she's "sexy" like I used to.

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  • Steven2.1
    8 years ago

    Your wife needs an older, more experienced husband, 42 years her senior.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      8 years ago

      I doubt that

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  • Ellenna
    8 years ago

    So what does your wife feel about this? Have you asked her?

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  • Akell
    8 years ago

    You guys just need to talk about it. If she's a mature ADULT you guys will talk about it and find ways to help the situation too. You never know, she might be feeling the exact same way you do but afraid to say anything

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  • Rick_Bawls
    8 years ago

    What killed the attraction? Did she let herself go and get fat or something?

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      8 years ago

      No, she hasn't gotten fat. She's gained some baby weight that she hasn't lost. I can't really pinpoint what killed the attraction to be honest. Her body does have something to do with it, but it's more than just that.

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      • ews3
        8 years ago

        I am in the same situation. I have been married for thirty five years and have not had any sexual activity with my wife for the last twenty five years. Like you I use pornography and masturbate on a daily basis. I get my sexual pleasure from sucking cock.

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  • IMissMary
    8 years ago

    Join the club... People talk about ED, nothing wrong with the cock, problem is the wife just doesn't stimulate anything.

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  • sexysonofsam
    8 years ago

    Watch porn whilst fucking her, it will turn her on as well!

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      8 years ago

      No thanks

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  • WonderGuy0103
    8 years ago

    How long have you been together??? If you are newlyweds then I would say it's not normal...

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      8 years ago

      About 3 years

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  • Ginger_V232
    8 years ago

    You two are just growing apart from each other.

    As Gypsy said; GOOD LUCK!

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  • thegypsysailor
    8 years ago

    There must be hundreds of sites on the internet where you can find ideas on how to put the romance back into your relationship and the excitement back into your love life.
    Unfortunately, I don't think this is one. Good luck.

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