Is it normal my stepdad takes/throws away my things when i'm 19?
I'm a 19 year old girl who just recently moved back into my moms basement, because I just had a bad breakup. I'm not close to my stepdad at all, in fact we've had a bad past here before I moved out because we both don't like eachother. (but have to pretend we somewhat do) I've been trying really hard to get back on my feet and I've been following all their rules, but when I leave he sometimes still for whatever reason looks through my entire room. Sometimes trashing it and throwing garbage everywhere. He's taken my TV (which is almost laughable because it's so stupid) and he apologized, but yet I just got home after a few days of being out and he threw my bong away and went through it again. (I've never even smoked at the house) IIN? I feel like this is a little fucked up. He also made a weird remark about NOT going through my underwear drawer? My mom has gotten mad at him before about doing it because I complain, but she's always still on his side nonetheless.