Is it normal my sister freaks me out and i dislike her?

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I have a younger sister who is 14 (I'm 18) and I dislike her alot. She never listens to our parents and plays on her laptop all day. She even ignores my mum when she tries to call my sister out of the room. She does nothing around the house which leaves me to do the washing up, cooking, tidying etc. I will ask her to help me but she either tells me she is busy eating or doing 'work'.

My dad has been extremely stressed out because she refuses to go to school, everyday she will say her tummy hurts. 1 hour later she comes out her room all normal as if nothing happened. She has missed almost all this year of school. I know she is faking because she is never sick on weekends or holidays, the moment it is school time she goes back to being 'sick'. My dad has taken her to doxctors all the time and they have found nothing wrong. She also always never flushes the toilet which is fucking disgusting, especially when shes on her period.

We used to be very close when I was younger, but now we hardly talk much, however the reason why is because I feel annoyed and awkward when around her. She says lol out loud and generally really cringey and will try to make jokes by laughing at random things because she will think I will join in but I don't.

I don't know why but I also think she likes me more then a big sister, she always gets to close to me and whenever theres a romantic scene on the tv or whatever she will try to get closer to me and look at me which makes me feel extremely uncomfortable.

Also sometimes we sleep over at my mums house but she only has 2 beds so I have to share one with my sister, and when she thinks I'm asleep she will come closer to me until we are spooning (not sex like she is pressed against my back)

She also sometimes tries to kiss me on the cheek as a goodnight but sometimes tries to kiss me on the lips. I remember sometimes when we were younger she would say that she wanted to kiss me on the lips. Am I just being paranoid or are sisters suppose to do this?

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  • Couman
    8 years ago

    Try offhandedly mentioning how sexy you think academic achievement is so she believes she's making herself more appealing to you when she goes to school.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      8 years ago

      Lol, that's actually a pretty good idea

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  • strapp
    8 years ago

    nope , no sister is suppose to do this , i know a girl like this , and the correct thin to do is to take her to a therapist .
    DO IT , NOW !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
    before it's too late

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      8 years ago

      Thanks, I have kept telling my dad to take her to therapy but he tells me she doesn't need it, and my sister has told me she wont go if it did happen.

      My dad sees her as the 'perfect' daughter and refuses to see anything wrong with her and spoils/babies her alot. My mum wants to take her to a therapist but we live with my dad so shes not allowed :(

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  • Crisndave14
    8 years ago

    My boyfriends son is exactly the same!!! We always argue only when his son comes over bc my boyfriend always leaves him with me while he works all weekend and his son always gives me a hard time. I always dread on him coming over and I HATE sleeping on the sofa on my own house just bc of a spoiled little brat and he's about to be 8 next year in August!!! Me and my boyfriend just had our own baby 14 months ago so it's stressful when his son is a pain.

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