Iin, my sex fantasies vs reality?

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Is it normal that I have sex fantasies that turn me on but when confronted with actually doing them just plain make me sick? Like thinking about giving a woman a rim job turns me on but then when I finally get her to spread her cheeks and my tongue is inches away...I think I'm gonna puke wondering if she wiped good, did she eat a burrito beforehand, is that a piece of corn,and how the fuck do I get myself out of this situation before I puke and hurt her feelings. "FUCK, how do I get myself in these situations!!"
Is it a normal reaction? Do others have fantasies that are exciting but the actual reality is a real turn off?

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Based on 59 votes (49 yes)
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  • lightandlove
    8 years ago

    Its totally normal. Some fantasies should stay just that ;) But...if some of them become too obsessive get rid of them! Like I had one and I allowed it to take over and then I was not able o do it without it.... Had to get rid of my partner in the end to get rid of that fantasy. Control your mind OR it will control you so to speak.

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  • thegypsysailor
    8 years ago

    Ever hear of having a shower before sex? During sex? After sex?

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    • itsnotnormal5
      8 years ago

      You pretend to sail the world from your mother's basement.

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  • handsignals
    8 years ago

    Toss that salad you little bitch! And when your done I'll take a mixed bean.

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  • Bambi2015
    8 years ago

    Some fantasies should just stay fantasies had a fantasy and had 2 chances 2 follow thru then when it was actually gonna happen i totally grossed out

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  • Arm0se
    8 years ago

    Ask her to clean up before hand.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      8 years ago

      It could be clean but I'm still hitting the mental brakes because, well, it's still someone's asshole. Even if it's clean it smells like an asshole. There's just no getting around it.

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      • lightandlove
        8 years ago

        yes, it is not for everyone and this is fine...this is why we have fantasies as it is a way to explore the possibilities...which we do not have to act upon. I personally would not recommend this kind of activity as so many people are infested with worms now days that actually it could have some very bad long term health consequences... You are fine.

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  • [Old Memory]
    8 years ago

    Yes, I have the same thing.

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