Is it normal my relationship ?

I knew my gf 2 years ago when I went camping with a group of friends and she was a friend of my friend. I thought she was pretty but I didn't ask her out back then because for some reason I thought she had had a boyfriend.

3 weeks ago, I met her again, we had both graduated from college. She asked me to grab coffee with her and I agreed. We talked for over two hours and I learned that she actually hadn't had a boyfriend back then and she'd wanted me to notice her too. I felt a little disappointed because I had missed a chance to date her. But then she asked me if I still wanted to date her. I was single at the moment and she was still pretty so I said yes.

After we have officially become a couple, I tried my best to care for her and be there for her but she seemed to be overwhelmed and she acted so shy about it. So I asked her if she needed some personal space. She said yes. So I stopped texting her and calling her too often. Instead, I contacted her every other day. I thought it would lift the pressure that she felt. But out of my expectation, everytime I skipped texting her for a day, she started to freak out and posted like the most devastated statuses on her facebook all of them implied how I made her feel unimportant and she even texted me telling me that I was the most cold hearted man on Earth and that I didn't gave her the attention that she deserved. But when I tried to make it up for her, she once again acted as if she didn't want it.

What am I supposed to do ? I must admit that I'm not good at guessing women's mind. =.= please give me some pieces of advice.

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  • rubbercock

    Kick her to the kerb..

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    • NotAgain..

      This ^. She's crazy. Don't even talk to her about it like others suggest. She seems mentally unstable. Find a normal chick

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  • Tealights

    She's crazy, dramatic, and she'll break your heart. Talk to her, if you want; but don't get her pregnant. Wear condoms like your life depends on it.

    When you get out this nightmare relationship, start noticing how pretty a girl is on the inside (her personality and more). I'm not saying you should date some bum off the street or exclusively date women you think are unattractive. However, you and many men out there need to stop picking out a long-term girlfriend based off a pretty face, big ass, or nice tits.

    Understand that, Pretty =/= stable human being. All pretty means is that person knows how to care for their body, or born with great genetics that they don't need to try hard to stay in shape or care for their skin. Plus, most pretty people develop very slowly emotionally, because our society rewards beauty and most tend trust attractive people automatically; so they mostly have to struggle with being popular all the time and having a following, but never with anything deeper, which forces them to grow as a person, not until years down the road. So there's a good chance your girlfriend will remain like this for a long time, always going to Facebook when she's mad and posting nonsense for people to agree to.

    Basically, pretty should be the only requirement when you're still sowing your wild oaks. Otherwise, you'll need to look a bit deeper and get to know a person before you consider them someone worthy of your time and effort.

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    • dankynanky

      Clear. Concise. Correct.

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  • sourgrapes

    No its not bloody well normal.

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  • ladyrubiesasshole

    I for one love this girls style,good on her the pig deserves it.

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    • dankynanky

      and you seem like a complete moron; moron.

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  • RoseIsabella

    Talk to her, ask her what's up with all of this mess.

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