Is it normal my partner not want to touch my intimate part but enjoys full sex?

My partner enjoys sex more or less. I say that because intercourse is frequent enough. But foreplay is either provided by me oraly or not at all. Mutual masterbation will never happen. My partner knows I enjoy this either receiving, giving it or both but won't touch me down there. So usually its caressing anywhere except down there then I give them oral then intercourse or just caressing and straight into intercourse. Is this normal?

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34% Normal
Based on 68 votes (23 yes)
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Comments ( 8 )
  • Tealights

    Did she give you a reason why? Have you asked her?

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    • she gets angry if its brought up and tries to make me feel like I'm weird for wanting this:(

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  • Ellenna

    Have you asked him why? Maybe he's just ignorant or has a phobia about women's genitals.

    Ask him if he did it for previous lovers, in which case, why not for you? Then listen carefully to his response.

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    • you really jumped to conclusions! you couldn't have been more wrong about what sex we are.

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      • charli.m

        If you're not gonna give genders, don't get offended when people assume. You give the bare minimum info, probably because you understand so little yourself.

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        • NO ! I wasn't offended ! Why elaborate on what sex anyone in the story is? it shouldn't matter!
          I understand alot ! I just wanted to know how common this was
          I have also learnt a lot by your reply. You have gotten wound up by a post made in reply to someone else(or are you the same person ?) and you were probably annoyed because you were thinking the same - that I was female. You were probably disappointed when I said I wasn't because you couldn't have a go at 'useless , inconsiderate men'.
          If indeed you read the post with a view to helping a stranger with a reply why didn't you leave a reply
          Looks like you are out to cause trouble and you aren't even any good at it, so either step up your game , sincerely try to help people or just don't bother replying to posts and replies ;)

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          • charli.m

            Wow, tarding it up as ever.

            I'm offended? Am I the one overusing exclamation points?

            It clearly does matter to you, because you kicked off when someone "got it wrong".

            I don't see men as a gender as useless. Individuals can be, but a whole gender? No. Now who's jumping to conclusions?

            So many assumptions and butthurts here, princess...

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            • do you just come on for a childish debate ,rather than to discuss the stories people post?
              I'm not going to humour you.
              you have answered the question I just asked by your reply! ; (

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