Is it normal my mum wants me to have a baby?
My mum has always tried to pressure me into things, and now it's turned to baby making. It started out with just jokes, but now my mum is constantly on my back with having a baby.
Everytime I see her she asks when I'm going to have a baby, which has started to piss me off. I don't hate children, but you wont see me volunteering to babysit the next doors kid.
Another reason is that I'm only 18, and I don't want to waste my life yet caring for another human for 18 years. The main reason though is because I have some health problems that I don't want to pass on. Diabetes runs on my mums side of the family (my sister, mum and both my grandparents have it) I also have polycestic ovarian disease, thyroid problems, aspergers, anxiety and may possibly be sociopathic. My family is pretty poor to, and I feel like if I had a child I would give it a shitty life, plus coupled with the chance of passing down me and my families health defects.
My mum doesn't understand though, which is why I think she is incredibly selfish.