Is it normal my mum called the police on me for slamming a door?

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My mum is extremely argumentative, she wants everyone to agree with her even if she's saying something that is wrong and if you even dare to correct her she throws a fit. A few months ago my mum provoked me and made me really frustrated, so I couldn't stand being in the same room as her so I got up and walked outside and I slammed the door.

My mum then locked me out of the house and called police, telling them I have autism (she later told me she told them that because police know how "dangerous" autistic people are) and that she apparently was afraid of me and "feared for her life." Keep note however I've never had the police called me, no criminal record, and I do not have aggressive tendencies. I have never attacked or psychically hurt anyone.

So the police come and I'm freaking out and panicking, they take me and my mum aside and basically asked us what's going on and left.

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  • SwickDinging
    5 years ago

    Your mum sounds exactly like my mum.

    Move out, far away. Visit her a couple of times a year for an hour or two so you won't feel guilty when she dies.

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    • [Old Memory]
      5 years ago

      :( so sad to hear this

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      • SwickDinging
        5 years ago

        It's ok, I got my happy ending :)

        After I left I had a rocky start but it eventually led to a pretty sweet life. My husband makes me feel very loved and safe. And he somehow manages to do that whilst still being polite and civil to my mother. Good guy.

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        • [Old Memory]
          5 years ago

          Sounds great. I'm waiting for the rocky part to end. It's reassuring to hear you made it.

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          • SwickDinging
            5 years ago

            Oh no. I'm so sorry, that's not a good place to be.

            I'd like to tell you that I got through it by believing in myself and letting go of my need to be loved and accepted by my parents, but that's not true. I fucked countless strangers and broke people's hearts, found it difficult to maintain relationships and friendships because I didn't know how to love, and I took copious amounts of illegal drugs to numb the pain. Eventually I snapped out of self destruct mode and started to get my shit together just in time to meet my husband. He saved me. He gave me the confidence to advance in my career, do a second degree in a subject I am passionate about, and become a mother.

            All I can say is try not to go too crazy on the self destructive stuff. You can reach a point of no return with that, and I was dangerously close. Maybe you're stronger than me and you haven't chosen that path.

            I don't know what happened to you, but something that helped me was reminding myself every day that I'm alive. No matter what has happened in the past, I can do anything while I'm still alive.

            I hope things get better for you. I really do.

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            • [Old Memory]
              5 years ago

              Thanks. Very helpful and inspiring. Glad to hear you're doing well now.

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  • kelili
    5 years ago

    I think that you have not told us the whole story.

    Sorry if I'm wrong though but I don't believe that it is as simple as that.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      5 years ago

      My mum has extreme parnoia, bpd, bipolar and other mental illnesses, she's batshit insane

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  • [Old Memory]
    5 years ago

    Had a somehow similar insane abusive malignant narcissistic father. My life was improved only when I left home. That is the only solution.

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  • Boojum
    5 years ago

    It's possible you're the classic obnoxious teen who's emotionally immature, constantly pushing boundaries and driving their mother crazy.

    However, you saying that your mother has a need to always be right with everyone and her trying to manipulate the police suggests that you might want to Google "narcissistic parents".

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    • [Old Memory]
      5 years ago

      Try "malignant narcissistic parents" for more accurate results in your case.

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  • FloppyPottee661
    5 years ago

    Bish, she crazy

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  • trexagireve
    5 years ago

    Just find her a submissive boyfriend to dominate and bust his balls, she will not have time for you then and she will fulfill her sadistic needs on him

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  • pizzabrowniesushi
    5 years ago

    My EX stepmonster sugartits treated her son like this. She'd periodically kick him out when she was pissed about life. I would let him stay with me. You should find someone to stay with.

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  • lordofopinions
    5 years ago

    I think your mom WAY over reacted.

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  • MrToxic
    5 years ago

    Without taking any sides here, I'd recommend you and your mother go to counselling.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      5 years ago

      I've tried offering that and telling her she should go to a therapist/counselor and she keeps refusing, she "doesn't believe in mental health workers" is what she keeps saying

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  • IrishPotato
    5 years ago

    I get the feeling this isn't the whole story.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      5 years ago

      It is. Had an argument with my mum, got up and left slamming the door, she then locked me out of the house and called the police lol. You underestimate how crazy my mum is, she's riddled with mental illnesses

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      • IrishPotato
        5 years ago

        Oh.

        I'm sorry you're experiencing this. No, it's not normal but if you care about her, you may want to try to get professional help for her.

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  • nikkiclaire
    5 years ago

    Respect your mother!!!

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    • [Old Memory]
      5 years ago

      I feel like you crave for ignoring everybody and going against the consensus just to feel special.

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      • nikkiclaire
        5 years ago

        This, from a misogynistic, racist douchebag.

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        • [Old Memory]
          5 years ago

          Lol I'll give you this one. Fuck all the equality leftist shit. That was such an accurate and spot-on response. Good. Good. Thumbs up!

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  • paracetamol
    5 years ago

    Obviously thats not normal.

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