Is it normal my man wants to chain me up using nipple rings

My man wants me to have my nipples pierced. He wants me to have rings in them, because he wants to put a chain through the rings and padlock me to the bed. He sometimes chains me up when we have sex, which I am ok with, but he says he wants to do this because he wants me to have my hands free while I am chained up. I know I will have to do this for him, he is not one to take no for an answer. But I am worried about the rings being ripped out. Has anyone else done anything like this, am I right to be concerned?

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  • What isn't normal is you don't seem to want to do it and said he doesn't take no for an answer, which is abuse.

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  • Pumpurrnickel

    Leave the relationship.

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  • I tried to leave him once long time ago, he was furious. He wanted me to go out for the evening not wearing any clothes under my coat. I didn't want to but thought no one would know so I did it for him. We went for a drink and were going to get take away on the way home. Then he tells me he changed his mind and wants to go to this restaurant. It's a small private place, we been before. They're nice people and always say can I take your coat madam, course this time I say no I keep it on but he starts making a fuss saying don't be stupid give him your coat. I was embarrassed and didn't know what to do. I tried to run out but he was blocking the way, so I'm saying let's just go. He snapped at me and says give him your coat. I got up all my strength and says fine and took it off. So I'm standing there in just my shoes totally embarrassed and determined not to cry. I asked if we could have a quiet booth at the back. The waiter was speechless but then says of course madam. I sat through the whole meal naked and at the end walked through the restaurant which had got busier by then and retrieved my coat. When we got home I cried all night and the next day I left him. I stayed with a girl friend but he found out where I was and came and got me. He forced me in the car then at home he beat me across my bare ass until I was all red and bruised. Then he locked me in a room for a week while the bruising heeled.

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  • Boojum

    You have to do this for him because...?

    I'm with Styrofoam on this one: you sound like a cretin.

    And yeah, if the guy is as big of an asshat as he sounds and you're as stupidly submissive as you sound, you probably are going to end up permanently damaged.

    Enjoy.

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  • curious-bunny

    Hey go on Tumblr and look up degrayhoundsowner and ask him about this stuff, they have done stuff like this plenty of times, wa t h out you will see nudity on there page, however they will really be able to help you out. Otherwise yea it's normal you should be safe

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  • I did actually ask him if we could use nipple clamps instead, but he said no. He knows what he wants and it's what he intends to happen. He has already made an appointment for me to have the piercings done next weekend. And no I will not be putting pictures on here.

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    • You’re being manipulated and you sound like an idiot.

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  • jmb.tech

    I think it is because your nipples may be hot, you should show us! But, why don't you use a non pierced jewelry for your nipples?

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