Is it normal my looks make me uncomfortable?

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I once met a person and they expected me to speak like a girl, when I started speaking this guy gave me an upset look and glanced at my body. I'm androgynous and I've been mistaken for a girl plenty of times, imagine Avril Lavigne but with slightly more masculine facial features, that's me. I feel like everyone thinks I'm weird in a way, I'm not really worried about what girls think, a lot of them find me really cute, but what everyone else thinks.

There are other guys who look like me, and they're called '' androgynous '', thing is I'm even more feminine than them, especially after having jaw reduction surgery, it was probably the only masculine thing about my face. I even have a buzzcut but I still look like a girl, and I can't grow a beard because it looks like pubic hair and I hate it.

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  • Cookiecutter
    7 years ago

    Stop worrying about what everyone else thinks its your body and your life not their. They can say what they want but it doesn't mean anything. Just live life how you want not how other people want you to be.

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    • Lashake
      7 years ago

      I don't know. Being attractive is fun and good but if I had common looks I'd be happier, I feel like everyone pays too much attention to me because of my peculiar looks.

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  • crygypsy
    7 years ago

    Dude I'm uncomfortable with my looks and I think I'm a semi-attractive female. It's just that whole being objectified thing. It hella creeps me out to no end. Like I might actually walk wrong in front of males or give them eye contact for too long and they will creep on me or think I'm a hoe. I can't fight those horrible feelings. I think no matter what we look like, we will always have insecurities. You are not alone.it's just as much of a struggle being attractive and always having people's eyes on you for longer than you would like. It's terrifying.

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