Is it normal my husband won't have sex with me anymore because of my vagina?

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Okay this is a little weird but it's anonymous so..
My vagina is really loose, and it got even more loose after childbirth (couple months ago now).
Since then my husband started acting really weird when I wanted sex.
After asking over and over he finally said what was wrong.. Quote: "As a Christian straight man it makes me uncomfortable to have sex with someone who looks like she has a small penis".
This really hurt my feelings and I'm not talking to him for the rest of the day.
I just want to know who you think is right here, we're been married for almost 4 years so I don't see the big deal why he can't get it in his head that it's NOT a penis!

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  • moomus
    11 years ago

    If he thinks you are loose, tell him it's his dick that's too small......

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  • NeuroNeptunian
    11 years ago

    Tell him that as a woman who enjoys sex, you are uncomfortable with having sex with someone that actually HAS a small penis.

    But seriously. Sounds like he just does not want to have sex with you. That's a stupid excuse.

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    • TerryVie
      11 years ago

      you made me laugh.

      Aside from that: Ya, it's a stupid excuse. You could try doing Kegel exercises about that "being loose"-thing, or try to entice him in different way(oral, anal)-

      and really, if your clitoris is such a big deal for him, how about him being a good christian and using positions in which he doesn't see it, or turning off the lights.

      Having sex in complete darkness can actually be something rather sensual from time to time -_- be creative, and don't just accept his excuses without argumentation.

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  • suckonthis9
    11 years ago

    In fact, your ciitoris is an undeveloped penis. During gestation, before the ninth or tenth week, we were all females. After sexual specialization, in males it develops into a penis, in females it remains relatively undeveloped or primitive.

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    • bigtoy
      11 years ago

      So now it's just a slightly larger penis, right? lolz

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  • bigtoy
    11 years ago

    Is there an echo when he shouts at you?

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  • Captain_Kegstand
    11 years ago

    Your husband kinda sounds like a jerk more than a "good christian man".

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  • Avant-Garde
    11 years ago

    He sounds shallow and his excuse is stupid. You shouldn't have to change for him, but perhaps there are vaginal strengthening exercises? Ask your doctor if you can strengthen them or get a book to knock some sense into your husband.

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  • anti-hero
    11 years ago

    Have you offered him your asshole? It is your wifely duty.

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    • bigtoy
      11 years ago

      F***ing funny!

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      • anti-hero
        11 years ago

        I try.

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        • bigtoy
          11 years ago

          Well done! You have excelled yourself today! lolz

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          • anti-hero
            11 years ago

            Hooray for points.

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            • bigtoy
              11 years ago

              lol!

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  • Darkoil
    11 years ago

    Why would he want to put his penis into the cave he saw a baby fall out of.

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    • bigtoy
      11 years ago

      lmfao

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  • BlackDays
    11 years ago

    That's just mean! I don't know what you can do about the appearance of it, aside from surgery which is crazy and unneccessary, but you could do kegal (pretty sure that's the spelling) excercises. Google it.

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