Is it normal my husband doesn't care i've been cheating on him?

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My husband walked in on me and one of the guys I've been cheating with. He didn't get mad, and pretended nothing was wrong.

Later that night, he said if I want to cheat, I should at least charge for it, and become a whore and that he would support me in that endeavor.

Is it normal, he doesn't even care I've been cheating on him with multiple men for months?

Yes, he knew all along	21
Yes, because he's probably cheating on you too	26
No, but enjoy the fact he doesn't care if you cheat	8
Take him up on his offer, and become a whore	20

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Tealights

6 years ago | pl

He knew, but didn't have proof. Now he just thinks of you as a stupid whore.

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- [Old Memory]
  
  6 years ago
  
  Don't respond to,this painfully obvious troll please!!!
  
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Justmehere

6 years ago

He's thanking you for giving him the green light to do or keep doing the same.. Good for goose, good for gander. He's probably hard-fucking his secretary or that hot bartender as we speak..

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  6 years ago
  
  Do you really think he's cheating on me?
  
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  - [Old Memory]
    
    6 years ago
    
    Troll.
    
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  - Justmehere
    
    6 years ago
    
    If he wasn't, don't you think he'd care or react that you're cheating? He found you in bed with another man. Most guys would rip things apart, but he didn't..Ever ask yourself why?
    
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    - RoseIsabella
      
      6 years ago
      
      Yep, he's probably already stepping out on her, or maybe he wants to, and now feels like it would be okay.
      
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    - Anonymous Post Author
      
      6 years ago
      
      Yes, I am wondering why he didn't get mad at all.
      
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  - RoseIsabella
    
    6 years ago
    
    Would that bother you?
    
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sararyan7242

6 years ago

Sounds to me like he either knew you where cheating or suspected it. He probably figured out he wasn't going to leave you before he caught you.

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bob7

6 years ago

become a whore ? you are already 1

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  6 years ago
  
  Should I really become a whore? If the men I'm seeing started paying me, that would be nice. Sex with a stranger has always been a fantasy of mine. Not sure...
  
  What are the pros and cons of being a whore?
  
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  - [Old Memory]
    
    6 years ago
    
    Troll.
    
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  - bob7
    
    6 years ago
    
    there arent any pros of being a stupid slut , i said you dont need to become one because you are already one , can you understand me or are you too focused thinking about sex and dick?
    
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    - Anonymous Post Author
      
      6 years ago
      
      I think I want to continue to cheat and see if any of the guys will pay me. That way if I get caught again, I can tell my husband I was being a whore like he asked.
      
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      - bob7
        
        6 years ago
        
        definitely a troll , this cant be real
        
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        lonewolf1253
        
        6 years ago
        
        No doubt in my mind. Not worth commenting on.
        
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        RoseIsabella
        
        6 years ago
        
        I dunno, it could be a troll, but it could be real unfortunately. Some people are really, stupid... yanno?
        
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      - [Old Memory]
        
        6 years ago
        
        It's not cheating if your husband gave you permission. You can openly fuck the guys you've been with. And you should try two or more at once. Get spit roasted, try a DP, enjoy yourself.
        
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Jimbo24

6 years ago

Be a full-on hoe. You were destined for this.

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[Old Memory]

6 years ago

If you have a group of guys that will fuck you for money, you should do it, especially because you have your husband's support. You're really in a good situation where you can have fun and get paid for it. Try more than one guy at once, you'll love it.

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Nickvey

6 years ago

you probably have him by the nuts meaning , the child support will kill him. his only hope is you are killed in a car crash or die of herpegonosyphillus. He might even pillowize you in your sleep. He probably looks at it like i would . I hope the hell she just packs her shit up and leaves me the house i paid for and the kids im raising without her help. Besides in two short years her titts will be dragging in the mud her ass will be too wide to fit in a theater chair. And if i had chose the gay lifestyle id had a better life. So after reading this are you really surprised he isn't upset ? I think he is beyond being Upset.

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- RoseIsabella
  
  6 years ago
  
  Damn, that's some heavy shit!
  
  It's bad enough for someone to cheat, but to to so, get busted then wonder why the spouse isn't passed is insane! Yeah, it would make sense for him to just want her to leave. There's only so much a person can take until they just don't give a fuck anymore. People usually act different when their cheating whether they realize it or not. He probably knew something was up.
  
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- Ellenna
  
  6 years ago
  
  Are you talking about OP's husband or yourself? Looks fairly obvious to me it's the latter and I don't see how that's relevant to OP's situation.
  
  However, I hope you feel better now
  
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RoseIsabella

6 years ago

Maybe he knew all along and was just being sarcastic?

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Pumpurrnickel

6 years ago

Not normal to cheat, not normal to not care.

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Dustyair

6 years ago

You're a bit fucked in the head, or a troll.

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- [Old Memory]
  
  6 years ago
  
  Troll.
  
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  - RoseIsabella
    
    6 years ago
    
    I hope so.
    
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    - [Old Memory]
      
      6 years ago
      
      It's a scabies infected, psoriasis ridden 59 year old man vocalising his sexual fantasies on Iin. Ignore him and he will find another site.
      
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      - RoseIsabella
        
        6 years ago
        
        HAHAHAHA! Whoa, that's über gross.
        
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rayb12

6 years ago

I think u wrote this post and the next one to be a bit cheeky

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Brownbear

5 years ago

If he did not care then he knew all ready. If I knew you were cheating I would be glad and tell you keep doing if it satisfied her. it's a win-win for the wife because she can keep f****** and she could ask for money for these guys. plus I think women should have an ongoing relationship with several men just so she has something different all the time.she could have what ever man over after work so I could watch them fuck will watching TV and stay the night. I would watch my wife spoon other guy will falling to sleep. Loved eating the cum mix out of her. Think she did too

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mike1982

6 years ago

My wife had sex with her boss for three years and I did not know it. One day she said her boss was come over to eat with us and would like to meet the man that has been eating his cum out of his wife pussy for three years. That night after we eat he fucked Cindy on the table as I watch after he came in her he said I have payed for this pussy for last three years and feeding you so I came over here to see you eat my cum out of your wife cunt that I pay for. Now as long at Cindy work me I will come over two night a week to fuck her and watch you eat my come for as long as she works for me. That was five years ago.

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hedgehog65

6 years ago

I always believe that if their reaction is surprisingly mild and forgiving, then they are hiding something and have possibly done something even more terrible.

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randypete

6 years ago

He wants to be a cuckold hubby

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KiwiWisdom

6 years ago

Maybe try asking him?

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Petowner123

6 years ago

Why would you even cheat in the first place I think that's extremely wrong

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jo8898

6 years ago

I agree with many of the answers. Although I did not see them, I found my wifes car at exboyfriends house. I knew what was going on. Just confirmed it, even though she continued to deny it. He probably called you a whore because the words make one feel better by hurting you. I wanted to say that but never did. Mainly because I knew I wasn't going to leave her. It would not do any good.

Why are you cheating in the first place?

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  6 years ago
  
  I like the thrill of having sex with another man. Although I don't make them use condoms for fear of a condom being found, it's still safe because the men are married and I don't have any STDs.
  
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  - Boojum
    
    6 years ago
    
    Ummm... yeah, everyone knows that married guys who screw around always limit themselves to only one "other woman", and guys who screw around never have wives who screw around. Plus, it's a scientifically proven fact that having a marriage certificate provides immunity to all STDs.
    
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  - Ellenna
    
    6 years ago
    
    You really are VERY stupid, aren't you? The men are married and fucking around and you don't have any STD's? NOT YET!
    
    Firstly, being married doesn't preclude fucking other people, just as you do and secondly, many STD's have no symptoms. For example, syphillis, chlamydia, HIV for a start.
    
    If your post is the truth, and I have my doubts, get yourself checked for all STD's AND USE CONDOMS .......
    
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  - RoseIsabella
    
    6 years ago
    
    They could give you AIDS, and get you pregnant. How would you like to be pregnant with a bastard child, and have an incurable STD?
    
    Maybe your husband just doesn't care about you anymore? Most people would explode the moment they walked in on their spouse cheating on them. No of this bulls hit is normal. Congratulations you have no moral compass!
    
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  - RoseIsabella
    
    6 years ago
    
    That's very selfish, and you could still catch something.
    
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    - Anonymous Post Author
      
      6 years ago
      
      I can't catch anything, because I'm on the pill.
      
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      - [Old Memory]
        
        6 years ago
        
        Huh? You can't 'catch' anything because of a pill?
        
        What kind of pill is this?
        
        It makes you immune to all diseases? AIDS, Syphilis, the Clap etc.
        
        Or are you thinking of catching a baby? Well its kinda hard to catch a baby, like catching a cold.
        
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      - RoseIsabella
        
        6 years ago
        
        The birth control pill isn't 100% effective as birth control, and it's 0% against sexually transmitted diseases.
        
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      - Ellenna
        
        6 years ago
        
        Now I KNOW you're trolling: no-one could seriously believe the pill protects women from anything except unwanted pregnancy.
        
        Go away and make up a more convincing story.
        
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    Do you let them come inside you?
    
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