Is it normal my heart belongs to only one person?

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I call myself a Aromantic and Asexual but deepdown and sincerely, I have feelings for my closest friend. I love her very much but the thing is, the liklihood of the two of us ending up together is not very likely to nil due to 2 things: 1) We don't live in the same state and 2) Both being females, she probably doesn't roll that way anyway (TBH, she's not even aware of my feelings toward her). The issue is that if I can't have her one day, then I don't want anyone. I feel as if my heart only belongs to her and no one could ever take her place. The funny thing is, a couple of times back in school (once in elementary and once in high), our peers actually asked us if we were gay since we were very chummy for friends. And there were also times we had together that seemed a bit "gay" or "odd". Going back to the subject at hand, she's the only one for me. My friendship, love, care, and heart belongs to her and only her. I've had many dreams of us being together and hopefully, those dreams are simply precursors to what will come in the future.

I love you, my Sweet Cake. I hope that against all odds, we'll be together somehow, someday.

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  • Avant-Garde
    9 years ago

    My heart belongs to one as well. I do think there is a shot for us, as well as you and your friend. You said that you were always very close, that could be the sign you need. Test the waters with her. When you interact, how does she act towards you? What is her body language like? How does she feel about same-sex unions? Things like that. Good luck. :)

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  • wistfulmaiden
    9 years ago

    This may not sound romantic but I don't think theres 'only one" soulmate out there for each person. I think some people are extremely compatible and attractive to each other, there could be 5 or 10 or 5000 people in the world youd really get along with, but if youre very fortunate you will fine one of them and have a good relationship. Don't give up.

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  • Pika-girl
    9 years ago

    I'm also in love with one of my closest friends, but I always think that we'll never be together... This was actually the strongest love I felt. (I'm straight, so he's obviously male)

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  • VirgilManly
    9 years ago

    I'm aromatic. You should get a whiff of me. It's cause I use that BOD body spray cause it's like a quarter for five gallons of the stuff. I like that.

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  • KeepsakeDoll
    9 years ago

    There's always a chance of you ending up with her or someone else in the future. It won't feel like that now, but there's always those unexpected occurrences.

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  • seakelp
    9 years ago

    Maybe? If you're both asexual and aromantic, doesn't that mean you're only capable of platonic feelings towards people? If your gay, don't let that stop you, but at least be honest with yourself.

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