Is it normal my girlfriend wears see-thru shirts that show off her bra in public

She likes to wear those see-thru shirts that show off her bra in public. When I first started dating her I was glad she was conservative in terms of fashion because she always wore a bra and never wore stuff that would reveal her cleavage, but lately I believe these see-thru shirts are even worse. I'm not insecure in the slightest but I am not comfortable with other guys being able to tell what color bra she is wearing under her see-thru shirts. I'm thinking of burning all those stupid shirts and buying her some decent clothes.

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  • You should let her wear what she likes. How would you feel if your partner told you not to wear something you felt comfortable with?

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  • Really none of your business what she chooses to wear. If you're bothered by it, it's your problem, not hers! So basically, FO!

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  • athem

    If she wants to wear them, then let her wear them. It's not up to you to dictate what clothes she owns, and if you're that uncomfortable with it then you should at least try talking about it with her if you haven't already.

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  • Boojum

    I guess you'd like her to wear a burka at the beach as well?

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  • Gina-G

    I think it looks really sexy to see a bra thru a shirt? What is your problem? Do you think she is showing off to attract a new man? I would get over it and get with her programme. She sounds like a fun woman! Maybe try without the bra and see how you feel? I am 38E and rarely wear a bra, not especially with see thru shirts but my dresses are often open to my waist and my tits are definitely out there. My husband loves it!

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    • boobygirlie

      Go for it girl!

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  • MR.mr

    I was mostly on your side until you started talking about burning her stuff. Talk to her don't burn her property.

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  • Ellenna

    You sound immature and possessive: her body, her choice what to wear

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  • Pumpurrnickel

    If you aren't comfortable with that, you need to talk to her about it and figure something out that works for both of you. Burning her clothes is selfish and a guaranteed end to your relationship.

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  • randypete

    better to wear a see-thru top and no bra

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  • aprilsommerss

    i mean she can wear whatever she pleases but talk to her about it!

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  • DaddyDarkrai

    Bro I just went through the same thing. For me it's not that I'm insecure or something. But my girlfriend and I are very posessive (in a good way). So it subconsciously bothers me that other men can see what was supposedly only for me to see

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  • JandV2020

    I love my gf wearing see through clothes on a night out. I’m sorry but it’s hot as fuck knowing that every now and then the lights will reveal all and you see all the guys thinking did I just see that. It’s also gotta be good for the girl that she is still feels desirable

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  • Txpaint

    Well when my girls started doing that I was told real fast by all my friends who just happen to be girls and of course my mother that is what they wear Well urr as The grass is green.. she was right!! so all I could do is just deal with it. Seriously after a while it went from being very weird,to very sexy, very attractive, and very tasteful. And besides I kind of liked it because all the other dads were jealous that I had for beautiful girls. so that's kind of fun

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  • kokoloko

    Show off your cock by wearing basketball shorts and no boxer. You have to have sex with another girl so you stop being so jealous.

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  • LionsMane

    Fuck what these other people say. People have standards in relationships and it reflects on you with choices like that, however
    minuscule they may seem. There is a chance she has no idea, though, so it might be worth talking about.

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  • Nickvey

    you cant dress a women , she is in advertizing mode , shopping for a new dude. you should be finding someone else to screw . this one is monkey branching away from you. Burn her shit and its jail time and restraining orders. just be sure you sink it in her ass one last time before you break up. or cum in her mouth if she hates that. thats how i handle it.

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  • Justmehere

    If she's doing it to get attention from other guys, tell her it pisses you off and to stop. But, if it's just a comfort or she wants to look good (for you), it's fine. Let her do it and be proud to show off what you have with her.

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  • I agree with a lot of posters here that maybe she should try blouse that's a little see through without a bra. Then she and you can both tease guys about what you get that they don't.

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  • Nutmegf

    Explain to her it looks trashy, and she has 2 choices, look like you wabt her to or find someone else.

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  • Tealights

    I guess it bother you because if you think about it, what made you interested in talking to her to begin with? Surely not her love for Star Wars or how she wears baggy clothes everywhere.

    Be happy she's dating you. If other guys talk to her, then you have to trust that she tells them to fuck off. It's not right to try to control people, especially your girlfriend.

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  • Handyman

    As long as it is a good looking bra, let her be. At least it is not without a bra too!

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  • MamaKy

    It's normal for girls to wanna show off, Even in relationships. It can make a girl feel more self confident. If I were in your shoes, I would make sure to show to others that she is mine. It shows a trait of dominance if you go out of the way to basically boast to other guys that you have something they they couldn't have with body language.

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  • RedDaisy

    How see - through are those shirts? And does she wear those at night or day ?

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  • goodatgiving

    Would it be better if she wore it w/o a bra? My wife wears see through and mesh shirts and dresses and never any undergarments. She has a great body and doesn't mind showing it. I condone and encourage her doing so as she works very hard at having her body in the best condition and loves sharing it with others. Would you want to have her do this? This to me is a terrific turn on as she flaunts herself to others. As she always said "IF YOU GOT IT, FLAUNT IT" while you still have it. Besides "IT'S ONLY SKIN". She flaunts it all over especially at friends and family functions. Her newest fashion thought is now "Thong Jeans" without the thong, just the jeans.....I LOVE IT...
    ( Check out thong jeans on internet....you'll be amazed)

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  • adventurous

    Have you discussed with her about see-through dress?

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    • goodatgiving

      I love my wife wearing see through clothing be it shirts or dresses and no underthings. It realty turns me on as well as the other guys who can't stop staring....Let them eat their hearts out....

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  • JellyFish123

    your woman is a hoe

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