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My girlfriend is a Fag hag and was once in love with her gay best friend four years ago. She even had to go to therapy when he came out of the closet after six months. They are still best friends and sometimes allows him to tea bag her in the face, gets high, and runs around naked together. Is she still in love with him?
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But seriously that sounds like a normal relationship, tea bagging each other like that. I personally dont see a problem at all.
She said it was no different than a family member farting on your head. I told her I never had a family member fart on my head. She said they are like family and that it's completely normal.
So she legitly sucks on his nuts and you are on here asking whether that is normal or not?
Sounds to me like you are getting the wool pulled over your eyes, sorry my friend.
what???????? why does she even want that? wouldn't you be equally freaked out if she was running around naked with another girl? what the heck. naked people are naked people no matter sexual orientation. i don't get this at all
It sounds like you're being played. :( If she knows that you're questioning this, then she must know you obviously are uncomfortable about it. She should respect that, and tell her friend that she can't do those things with him anymore, because shes in a relationship now, and that you don't feel comfortable with her being with him practically all day + night. I mean, lunch and dinner 4 to 5 times a week at his place?!?! Come on! Somethings wrong there. Has she ever asked you to go to lunch/dinner with them?
No, they told her she had to be in a stable relationship before meeting them. She had two boyfriends before me last year. The first one met the friends and he bailed a couple weeks later, the second disappeared after 2 months, and then there was me. I wonder if I made her realize something of if I was just played???
i would be concerned because your girlfriend had feelings for this guy before.To the point she had to go for therapy?i'd say Run.this is too much buggage.Its gonna drain you emotionally
She tried to tell me she was over him. But they see each other 4 - 5 times a week, lunch, dinner at their place. Dressing up in Drag on Friday nights, going to gay bars in STL and KC. I wasn't invited and she would say "Now I won't be blowing up your phone while I'm gone."
She could still have feelings for him. And I don't know about you, but if I had a girlfriend that were doing that with someone else, I'd be like wtf? I mean, you're her bf. Why doesn't she just do that stuff with you?
Well, I don't smoke pot and I'm sure they have a great time when their out. She was in a very strict family before moving to the city and her friend was her first boyfriend ever. He was the only person she ever messed around with before he came out of the closet.
Yeah, but is it really necessary for another guy to be tea bagging her? I mean, whether he's gay or not, it doesn't seem right for her to call you her boyfriend and then go off doing that with somebody else. That must bother you, right?
I think you should confront her about it, or just one day in a non-confrontational manner, ask her if she still has feelings for him, and if she says no... and it bothers you that she does that stuff with him, then ask her why she does those things with him. It just sounds a little fishy to me. It almost sounds like she could be doing more, and like shes playing you. You might be better off breaking up. Anyway, I hope whatever you decide, it works out for you. :)
Now for the rest of the story, I did confront her with it but it was a little confrontational. A week after the argument she wanted to go public on FB (In a relationship) and I told her we should wait until V-Day. I sent her flowers on V-Day... and that night, she broke up with me at 10:30. I couldn't get her on the phone the whole night. She told me her schoolwork was suffering due to our chatting/talking all the time. She lived 45 min away so we only saw each other on the weekends when she wasn't with her guys. That's the end of the story, I just don't get it.