Is it normal my girlfriend hangs out with her ex once a week?

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We have a pretty good relationship but it bothers me that she hangs out with her ex once every week. She tells me they're just friends but how can I be sure. She says to trust her but every time she comes back from seeing her ex she is a lot happier compared to before she left. She did break up with me once but I convinced her to give me another chance. We don't have sex because she told me that I wasn't good enough in bed, but she always reminds me that there is more to a relationship than just the physical aspect of it. I know I am lucky to have her so I buy her expensive gifts and take her to nice places but I can't help but feel insecure about this whole situation.

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  • JellyBeanBandit
    6 years ago

    She told you you're not good enough to have sex with, and you just accept that? Plus you're basically paying her to stay with you?! You obviously have some seriously low self-esteem, and it's only gonna get lower staying in those circumstances. Take some pride in yourself and dump her!

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  • [Old Memory]
    6 years ago

    *yawn*

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  • nikkiclaire
    6 years ago

    Lies, no woman told you, you aren't good enough in bed. Unless you routinely mistake her asshole for her vag that did not happen.

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  • CDmale4fem
    6 years ago

    Well you answered it. She going for the Ex-Sex. If she told you you are not good enough then how does she expect you to get better if she's not there to practice with you.? But I'm sure she's getting all the practice she needs. What's your ages ? Now what you REALLY NEED TO DO AS OF TODAY -- STOP BUYING HER SHIT AND STOP TAKING HER TO NICE PLACES. Ask her about sitting home and "Netflix and Chill" and see her reaction. I'm betting my next paycheck that yes, she's fucking her ex, she hangs out with you for the gifts and the nice places to eat. Her Ex is ok with it because she has made it clear YOU AND HER ARE NOT HAVING SEX. SO he's ok with her hanging with you. You convinced her to come back to you when you offer the nice dinners and expensive gifts. I bet she won't give you 1 day if you don't buy her anything. I don't mean to hurt your feelings, but the truth is better than being led on for the things you buy her. Find someone that WILL like you for you, not for your wallet.

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  • e51pegasi
    6 years ago

    Well isn't that nice, perhaps the pair of them are spending their time, once a week, together at the soup kitchen. Or taking blankets & gloves, listening to the plight of those who are less fortunate than themselves.

    No one is that naive. Very trolly as well.

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