Is it normal my girlfriend gets mad when i drink?

My friend always ask me to go get drunk with him. I wouldnt mind doing it but I wont because my girlfriend would get mad at me and I just want to avoid the fight. I wouldnt have a problem with it but she drinks with her friends all the time, and in some situations I ask her not to because there just not good situations. Is it normal for her to have these hypocritical rules? Should I do something about it?

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  • jokersmokerface

    guess we know who wears the pantss in ur relationshipp

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  • shade_ilmaendu

    Wow, she sounds like a guy I dated once. He got drunk 4 night a week but the first time I drank at a party in a year cus i was healthy enough to stomach alcohol again there was a fight.

    I don't care what her reasons are for not letting you drink. It's BULLSHIT that she can drink and you can't, and know what ice found? Usually when people are insecure like that it's because theyre doing something wrong. Ex) lots of people, if they're cheating, will accuse you of chesting to cover up for themselves.

    Also, this post is making me hate my gender. Why did so many other girls agree with your gf? Cus i think she sounds kinda psycho

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  • Tisgranum

    Wow, what a bunch of hypocritical comments on here. Women saying that women should have control; I call bullshit.

    Why would she know what is good for you and not the other way around. Heck, maybe she doesn't want you to drink because she cheats on you when she does and she thinks you may do the same.

    All's these women know about what's going on between you and your girlfriend is that she is exacting control on you and they love it.

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  • Tehboss

    dude that's one tight leash she's got goin there you are her bitch now =D what next she dont want you talking to your mama?

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  • ilovesuperman

    Just saying but I told my ex to stop drinking cause he can't control him self and what do you know he didn't listen and now he's my ex cause he got shit faced and cheated. So idk if you can control yourself but she probably has a reason for telling you to stop.

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  • No it is NOT. She's allowed to do something but you're not? Thats BS. Do what you want, and consider dumping her if she's going to be controlling and hypocritical.

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  • 3timesbiggerthenu

    Just fuck her in her ass when she drinks and tell her your going out drinking also

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  • xEmilyStrangex

    I guess it depends how you both act when drunk.

    I personally choose not to drink because despite loving my husband being drunk turns me into a horny slut. My husband on the other hand never gets like that so occasionaly he will have a drink...

    I just think it's all about how people act and how responcible people are. Some men get aggresive when drunk.

    If none of this is the case then maybe your girlfriend is just being controlling. Maybe sit down and try and talk to her about it.

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  • Nightmare-Rex

    yes I would understand if she was a girl that was nice and diddent't want you to drink/smoke and gave herself the same rules. but if she is being a hypocrit about it than that sounds like a shitty girl-frend.

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  • saulhudson

    your gf just cares about you, and loves you. I hate my gf when she goes in the club alone just because i think if she is smoking in the club or drinking with her friends.

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  • Oli

    Does she get drunk?

    If not, she doesn't have a say.

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  • georgienne

    You just need to have a sit down.
    She KNOWS what she's capable of (ex. Not cheating, stopping at too many, ignoring dumb friends), if you're away from her, how will she know if you can do the same?
    She may be worried about you doing something (drunk or not) with your friends around (ex. My bf is COMPLETELY different with his friends, that terrifies me, because I don't know if his values carry over to that side of him).

    Talk to her. You may have to set a drink limit, being her along sometimes, keep frequent contact with her on nights out.. Whether or not you're concerned for her, you can ask her to match your limitations as well, so as to be more fair.

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    • jar1345

      When I drink I dont like getting wasted. She knows this, but the problem is she does get wasted and she has cheated on me before.

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  • TyLee

    Yeah it's totally normal. You probably can't control yourself and your friends are probably immature losers.

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    • jar1345

      the thing is when I drink I dont get wasted. so I have good control. On the other hand she has gotten drunk and cheated on me. So the problem is not my self control, she has none but she doesn't let me drink anyway

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  • gloomydust

    Why do you have to be so rude.
    Maybe she's loyal enough to trust herself because she knows she won't do anything, she just doesn't fully trust you? Maybe shes worried that you'll cheat (she knows she won't ever cheat on you) . It's not really a bad thing... And you shouldn't listen to everyone.. Unless you really know what's best for you. Try having a controlled ego. :)

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    • jar1345

      thats bullshit because she has cheated on me while drunk before

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