Is it normal my gf wants to spend the weekend with a guy and stay at his place?

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My girlfriend and I are in a long-distance relationship, but we're in a serious stage; talking about kids, marriage, and the whole shebang. Anyway she told me the other day out of the blue that she's going to spend the long weekend with a guy friend and stay at his place because he wants someone to celebrate/party with. I've never heard of this guy before and its hours away from where she lives in England. The strangest part is she bought the train ticket THEN told me about it.
Is this sketchy as hell or am I being paranoid?

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  • mypenisinyourmouth
    7 years ago

    You are in a long distance relationship with her. She asked you if it was okay to go visit a friend, who is a guy, and that will also mean that you two won't be able to talk much.

    It sounds legit to me. It really does.

    Considering that she could've told you that she is going to camp in a shopping mall with some girls and that cell reception would probably be non existant ...and then she could turn off her phone. 

    You would never have suspected anything. So why would she tell you (what I believe is) the truth? She is a good girl

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    • 8=====D~~~~~
      7 years ago

      It would be nice to hope so. Although in all honesty its still inappropriate to be doing if one is in a serious relationship.

      There are decent people of either gender who would have honest intentions in a situation like this but its just easier to remove all doubt and not ask your significant other if they are alright with this sort of situation.

      I say this as a straight guy as well and I certainly wouldn't ask a female I was in a serious relationship with if this was okay. I just wouldn't do it. If my significant other came to me with this request I would be adamant that I am not okay with it. Of course she could still go, how would you stop someone? But it would be disrespectful and probably wouldn't be easy to just move past in the relationship going forward.

      Who knows though? I could be a relic and my viewpoints totally outdated as well.

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  • Jujudog
    7 years ago

    Tell her its a great idea, and that you will come along for the party too (whether you have any intention of doing it or not, pretend you do). You'll see from her reaction where the land lies. Where are you located anyway?

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  • RoseIsabella
    7 years ago

    I don't appreciate people who just repeat the same damn post over and over.

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  • Assxpert
    7 years ago

    As an assxpert I would advise you to be weary of said situation. Ask yourself, what do you think his intentions are? Tread carefully with this one.

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  • BlackyHancock
    7 years ago

    Take it from me, when you're in an LTR and a GF says she's 'spending a weekend with a guy' you can be 99% certain she's having sex with that guy.

    "Oops I didn't mean to... it just happened"

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  • mrbrownfinger
    7 years ago

    the filthy slut, she's gonna be getting banged like keith moons drum!!

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