Is it normal my friend is falling in love with me (read more)?

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My friend and I are basically like fuck buddies. We get really dirty and nasty with each other. But he's falling in love with me? How do I stop this even though I love how dirty we are with each other? I'm not in love with him. But it's making me even more turned on that he's falling in love with me? How do I confront him when he tells me he wants to cuddle or something like that? It makes me even more turned on the more he wants me. But I don't want him. What's wrong with me?

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  • Duane59
    6 years ago

    I will tell you what is normal, women are just wired wrong. They create most of their own problems. They don't consistently think the same way, depending on how they feel that day. This is why I never cared for working with women, even though they are more fun to ogle, even so they don't like being ogled. Difficult they are. They cause most of the problems, and don't even realize it.

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  • RoseIsabella
    6 years ago

    Well, what did you expect? Why don't you want him? So you're just using him for sex, huh? If it gets weird you'll only have yourself to blame.

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  • Boojum
    6 years ago

    Some people like to believe that sex can be completely detached from emotional attraction, but psychologically healthy humans have difficulty seeing another person as just a piece of meat once they get to know them. And having sex with someone is a pretty good way of getting to know someone.

    Why are you enjoying this? Who knows? You're a drama queen? You get a kick out of having the power to hurt him? You like the fact that he values you?

    If you don't want a relationship on the terms he does, then the mature and healthy thing to do is to tell him that you can't see each other any more.

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