Is it normal my father thinks my boyfriend is more intelligent than me?
My boyfriend is in med school on his way to becoming a doctor. I'm in school getting a master's so I can become a teacher.
My father often says stuff like, "I can't believe he's that intelligent", " He must be a genius to be able to become a Dr", "He's so smart" etc. While I sit there and bury my head in my hands.
Why is it that just because I'm going to school for education and he's going for medical, that he's immediately seen as more intelligent than me? I know my Father never outright says, "your boyfriend is so much more intelligent" but it feels the same regardless. I just don't understand this and nothing seems to justify how he perceives us differently. I love kids, my boyfriend loves helping people. I don't think I'd fail medical school if I tried but it's just not my forte. Why doesn't my father see what I see it? I've been with my boyfriend long enough to acknowledge we're on the same page when it comes to intellectualism..