Is it normal my father punishes me in boxing
I am 20 year old and since I was 4 if my father had to punish me it was always a boxing match against him that I never won. I never had any serious injury during our matches but his punches have always been painful.
Those punishments always had a fair reason like the last one was for crashing his car a week ago. I was given two choices either have a match with him or be a coward and leave the house. I was given two days to decide or prepare.
I opted the match and was beaten down and humiliated for being weak, coward and careless.
I am one of the best boxers in my gym and my father is one of quickest technical player. (you throw a punch and you eat one before you make the guard kind of quick). So I never won a match against him.
is it normal that my father punishes me this way? My trainer says that I am good at boxing because of my father. Everyone at my gym agrees with my father's way of punishing me.