Is it normal my ex wants me back? he left me...

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I dated a guy for about 8 months. I was crazy about him; loved him more than i ever thought possible. Anyways, he dumped me in February and we talked on and off once in a while, but he only wanted to be friends. it was dumb on my part to even respond.

Now it's September and he's been bugging me since the middle of the summer to see me. All of a sudden, he wants me back and says he misses me. I don't get it; He said he wasn't sure I was what he wanted when he left and I was devastated. But now he's doing this.

Is this normal?

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  • kingofcarrotflowers
    8 years ago

    A relationship is nothing without trust and me personally in that situation? I wouldn't be able to trust,

    What happened in that time that made him so sure that now he knows you're what he wants other than he just needs some companionship?

    No one on this site has any way of knowing all the details of your relationship needed to tell you whether you should get back with him or not so all I'm going to say is that no matter your choice protect yourself, don't let yourself be strung along and used or " settled for " because he regrets not just having someone, you need to be able to understand his intentions, good or bad

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  • thegypsysailor
    8 years ago

    If he thinks he'll get sex out of you, he'll say anything.
    If you are smart, you'll stay as far away from him as you can.
    You say he left you but you didn't say if he hurt you, but I assume he did. Why would you give him another opportunity to do it again?
    Go find someone else. This one is a loser looking for a little easy sex.

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  • TheCockRoach
    8 years ago

    Your boyfriend is a fuckin loser and obviously doesn't know what he wants, what a bitch. He should've kept banging you along with other chicks at the same time.

    Why break up without backup so you can loom forward every day giving yourself a hand-job. What a fuckin loser bitch

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  • Terence_the_viking
    8 years ago

    Tell him to Piss the FUCK OFF!!!

    in the nicest possible way.

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  • MrSexyJesus69
    8 years ago

    yo girl, leave dis hoodrat, get yo booty some real gangsta right here HOLLLLLLLAAAAAA!!!!

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  • RoseIsabella
    8 years ago

    Honey child, he's yo ex for reason. Leave his sorry ass in the past where he belongs, girl. If it didn't work before it ain't gonna work now. He's probably just horny and lonely, and maybe you're horny and lonely too, but that ain't no excuse to make the same mistake twice.

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  • [Old Memory]
    8 years ago

    May be he realised what he lost and wants you back. Think deeply about it, think about how you'll feel if he leaves you again. Is it worth it?

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  • victorygin
    8 years ago

    It's almost a guarantee that if you get back with him, the relationship will repeat itself to an uncanny degree.

    He's realised he couldn't find another girlfriend as easily as he thought, he's now lonely and you're starting to look pretty good again. But if he didn't appreciate you before, then there's absolutely no reason he's going to appreciate you now.
    Unless he had some sort of intense epiphany, like a life-altering event or a near-death experience (yeh, right).. to shift his perspective completely, then there's no reason to think a relationship with him would be any different the second time around.
    These things just repeat themselves.

    Don't allow yourself to be sucked in, just because HE'S feeling lonely.

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