Is it normal my ex has ruined my life completly

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I been really messed up since they left and I am still not over it. its very rare I like anyone and I really liked them. They decided to run off with a friend suddenly when I got tired of them flirting with all these other people and still wanting my attention. The friend they ran off with cheated on them and the two ended up turning my other friends against me. I have not liked anyone since I was 12 and now I am in my 20s. Just seems like I dont really have a future anymore.

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  • [Old Memory]
    7 years ago

    Not normal to allow another person to ruin your life. Nobody else is responsible for your happiness.

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    • EccentricWeird
      7 years ago

      You're still a user here?

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      • [Old Memory]
        7 years ago

        I haven't seen you lately either.
        I still post here but not as often as I used to. I have better things to do with my spare time. This site can be entertaining but sometimes it's the same questions everyday.

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        • EccentricWeird
          7 years ago

          I'm on that chat every day.

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          • [Old Memory]
            7 years ago

            Oh, I rarely go in chats. I usually just type on here between doing other stuff.

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  • EccentricWeird
    7 years ago

    Sad.

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  • john288
    7 years ago

    just read it all.12.That may have somthing to do with a mental illness.not to be funny.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      7 years ago

      This did not happen at age 12.

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  • john288
    7 years ago

    At least you got your guns,your religion,and your donald trump

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  • ThingTwo
    7 years ago

    get comfortable with your life of ruins. Laziness will help preserve your despair. At least you have learned your lesson.

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  • sandnigga
    7 years ago

    Howd they turn your friends against you?

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      7 years ago

      Since when I confessed and said the little triangle that was going on they said I was making stuff up. My other friends believed it and one of them was a close friend I had that sided with my ex and ex best friend and started spreading all my secrets and basically they all started harassing me endlessly. So first my ex left for my best buddy, than all my others friends turned, than everyone started harassing me for months because of it.

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      • sandnigga
        7 years ago

        That doesnt sound right :/

        What kind of dumbass "friend" was that?

        I say you can try to get your "friend" back if you want. But it really depends on what your secret was. Obviously im sure you arent willing to tell.

        But it's one thing if they really are harrassing you, it's another if you're just too sensitive.
        But im not you so bleh :P

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          7 years ago

          It was the equivalent of outing your gay friend who wasn't out of a closet. No, I am not making it up I mean they were harassing me and would not stop. I finally got them to drop it after months but that was after my ex best friend cheated on his partner with the friend who spilled my secrets. After which they started trusting me again.

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          • sandnigga
            7 years ago

            lol sounds like some good karma

            Well it sounds like things should get better for you then ;)

            Time will tell. Just be patient.

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          • sandnigga
            7 years ago

            I think I know what your saying, and yea that secret should remain secret if you want it too.

            I wouldnt like that shit either. Would probaley make me mad lol

            Well theres not much you can do now, since the secret is out, but you can either deny it lol, embrace yourself and just admit it or just ignore this whole situation

            Either way you go, it sounds like your friend was in the wrong. You can try to forgive them, but thats up to you, and it might take time.
            I hope you can get your friend back though :) but it was wrong of them to do that, so you could confront them about it if you want
            Either way though, good luck ;)

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