Is it normal my boyfriend turned me into a bitch and now he hates me for it?

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He is literally driving me insane. I get crap from him about going to school, our anywhere for that matter, about i'm cheating on him and talking to a bunch of dudes - which is bullShit, I hardly talk to anyone. and he bitches because i have a bunch of guys on my fb, even though they are just people i knew from grade school and most of them are gay, teachers or family anyways. He threatens to add a bunch of girls to his or do something worse to get back at me for doing nothing.Yet when i say something about him hanging out with friends for hours, not knowing exactly what he's doing, i'm the one who is wrong. Last time, he spent the night at his friend's house and before he left he was talking about banging these chicks that stay next door over there(just to piss me off, they are jail bait) and couldn't understand why i was mad at him. How can i trust him when he talks like that? Then he talks to his friend about how much i bitch and think he's cheating on me. I know he's insecure and i can say things that are a bit unnecessary at times, but he turned me into this jealous monster and he knows it.... I feel like i will never be able to go back to my calm, collected, trusting self. He just told me i'm lucky he hasn't cheated on me.

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  • Mmmpfh
    11 years ago

    What a dickface. Girl, get your ass out of there.

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  • Justsomejerk
    11 years ago

    So leave his sorry arse.

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  • TooPure
    11 years ago

    Babe. I'm sorry to say this, but I'm exactly like your boyfriend, or was atleast. My crush suffered the same from me, I know I did wrong, after so much mindfuck, she started to become angry at me. I'm sure what he actually wants from you is more reassurance from you that your his, that you love him, to talk more softly. That's what I wanted atleast. It will work. If not, he lost it, give him a time out...

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      11 years ago

      You are most helpful. What can I do to reassure him? I am not good at making people feel good about themselves, although I try when I'm in the mood.Usually he doesn't believe my compliments anyway and it seems I can never do enough to reassure him. We have been together for many years now, so we've already taken many breaks. They have helped somewhat, but we are too grown to go about it that way anymore. At least he is the kind of person who wants to change his flaws, though. How can I reassure him without becoming completely antisocial? I would delete these guys off my fb to make him feel better, but I feel there is no reason to. It's not like I have exes or crushes on there. And how should I react to his mind games?

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      • TooPure
        11 years ago

        Sorry for the long reply, vacation. Yep sounds like my evil twin. Well, if I were him I would want reassurance that she's only mine, that would probably be because of lack of emotional connection, Clearly he wants to own you, but he must understand that he is lucky your still together. My girl started to communicate more rarely, and mostly gave the cold shoulder, she was angry on me, that was driving me crazy, because I didin't know the cause, eventually, we divorced, as much as it displeased me. To me it seems, he doesn't appreciate your time together. he should get the feeling that he is losing you if he keeps up the bad behavior, that worked on me, I still want her back, I still want to amend for my mistakes.

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  • semiaj013
    8 years ago

    go eat his soul if he has one if not expose him to Thermal neutrons of shove Liquid Uranium-235 down his throat

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  • coolio75650932
    11 years ago

    why every one say leave him? i say punch him in the ƒucking face and tell him there just friends/family :3 lol

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  • littlebarbie
    11 years ago

    He is crazy. He does things and complain that you don't like? Girl, you are very right in be jealous, but he doesn't deserve this. Leave him. Will be difficult, mabe you suffer, but believe me: he can be worse in the future.

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  • Loh
    11 years ago

    This is posessive. Posessive loving and extreamly insecurity about your relationships are never good. Either he gets some help or you leave him. And i'm saying this out of personal experience...Guys like this are the ones that you have to leave AS SOON AS POSSIBLE or you can regret alot of things later in it. He can get worst. And he's being a hypocrit too. It may be hard because you love him but trust me i'm sure you can love again...It's not too late.

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  • Akeem
    11 years ago

    Leave him

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    You sound like a natural cunt, are you sure he did this?

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