Iin: my boyfriend treats me horrible and i am aware and allow it?

Being single is not that awful. It's better to be lonely than mistreated. There are heaps of guys out there who RESPECT you.

It sounds like you already know you're in a bad situation with a male (I won't bother calling him a man) who treats you badly.

Yet you still don't know if you should stay with him or not?

you seem like a really nice person :/
such a shame that this man is taking advantage of this fact.
you really need to move on, i'm sure you will find someone to be proud of, and who will be grateful to have you.

DITCH HIM

I've been there girl. This man is disrespecting you and it's not okay. Let me tell you were you're at now: you love him more than you love yourself.

You DON'T deserve this bull shit.

Leave for good. No "let's be friends" end it.

Rich boys normaly suck on the teet of that one rich relative the rest of their lives anyway.

I would ditch him. You deserve better.
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i'll tell you wat i agree with "everybody i know" you deserve berra. :)

I'm sort of going through the same thing right now with my boyfriend,everyone also tells me to kick his ass to the curb! I work for his company which is soon changing,because Im starting school,thank god! It sounds like your boyfriend has a case of double standards,I can you cant! A lot of people do the doubled standard thing,including women! I would say leave his ungrateful ass,but I'm in the same situation,and I know how hard it is. One piece of advice I could give that has worked for me,when I was feeling very unappreciated was leave for a few days don't call or text him,ignore him,go and do something for yourself! Give him time to think that you might not be back,you can't tell him your leaving though just do it,if you have any vacation days or sick days at work,take them,if not this might be tough! I believe you guys see too much of each other,because this is almost identical to my situation with my man. Good luck I hope everything works out for ya.

next time he's mean to you, kick him square in the nuts.

Love it or leave it. Sorry, there are no other choices. You will never change him. He will never see the light.

There are worse things than being alone, as you will no dout learn the hard way.

You need to leave him!!!!! Go away now, he sounds like a complete jerk! It's for your own good, you'll find someone, someday that'll treat you right! Get your stuff and leave girl!

If there is a lock on his phone he is likely being unfaithful.

You just described my ex!! :) the time will come if it has not yet come that you will get tired, but you'll still have no guts to leave him because you love him, but he is that way because you allowed it, like I did. He treats you like this because in his head he thinks that no matter WHAT he says or does, you'll never leave him... I can't tell you to leave him, cuz you won't do so, but the easiest thing you can do is give him a tate of his own medicine (be a complete BITCH and act like you don't give a damn) and he'll have to realize there IS a possibility he CAN loose you... Good luck, stay strong.

You have to be the one to change here, for things to get better, because he will most likely not change. Good luck with your choices

Maybe you're only with him because you don't want to be single? I'm single (and don't want to be) but I think it's better to be single than to be with somebody who treats you like this. I'd get rid of him if I were you. He's not worth it!

Lose the boy!!!

For you to know and still stay with him shows how much you respect YOURSELF and what kind of value you place upon YOURSELF. Think about that.

Is it because you think you won't find someone else? because I hope you know that's not true. You need to lose him. It's a bit more complicated because you work together but the sooner you leave the better. Good Luck =)

you've accepted this or you wouldn't put up with it. You need to break out of this relationship. It's a dead end, I don't care how cool he thinks he is. You need to make a new start.