Is it normal my boyfriend often tells me "later" when i want to have sex?

Often when my boyfriend and I are fooling around and I want to have sex he tells me "later/tomorrow/in the morning" so we finish in other ways. It is confusing/frustrating me. (by the way the "later" thing usually does end up happening but I don't understand why it can't be "right now")

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  • Because he doesn't want to?
    If his was a girl saying "later", the guy would be seen as an asshole for being angry that she won't have sex with him when he wants.

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    • Two thumbs down, yet no comment explaining why. Again, IIN community, you lack logic. No doubt it was by female users, though.

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      • VioletTrees

        She's not angry, though. If she said it made her really angry, I'd call her out on it. Getting mad at people for not having sex with you isn't ok, no matter what gender you are, but that's not what's happening here. She just said she was frustrated and confused.

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      • Anime7

        I agree with you on this point, even though she's not angry. I think you made a valid point.

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    • Who says I'm angry? I'm not.

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  • massiveaccordian

    if you are with someone in a committed relationship and they never wants to have sex with you something is really wrong.

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  • kelili

    If us girls we can say it why not boys. Relax....

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  • Djtia

    Maybe you are being too 'giving', too eager to please him?
    Of course if he has the option to have a blow job (lay back and enjoy) or have sex (requires more effort), and if he's tired at the times you're mucking around, it might just be easier...?

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  • maybe he hates sex just like me if only he'd cut his dick off just like me

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  • bostonpuckbunny37

    I mean it's normal but it sucks. Everyone thinks guys are too horny but hey it's not so fun when it's the other way & your gettin turned down

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  • babe14

    just talk to him and ask him why he is always wanting to do it later. is a guys dream for a being able to have sex with their gf. (:

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  • Avant-Garde

    This sounds extremely odd.... Why don't you ask him what his reason is?

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    • I want to ask but I don't want to be pushy

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  • GoraIntoDesiGals

    Maybe he was waiting for the blue pill to take effect.

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    • He is erect in these situations

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  • I've said that when my cock smells like other girls.....he might be getting it somewhere else?

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    • I don't think that is why because when we don't have sex but are still fooling around I will finish him with a blow job. Besides we are together most of the time.

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      • I was just saying from my experience. He probably doesn't cheat.

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  • Lynxikat

    Has it started happening recently? Or has it always been like this?

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    • It has always been like this

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      • Lynxikat

        Hmm... that's weird. Then in this case the whole "Maybe he's just tired" excuse doesn't seem to work that people are giving here doesn't work.

        This is cliche advice, but I personally think you should talk to him about it. I know you don't want to be pushy, but if it's been like this the whole time, and it's really bothering you, you should talk to him about it.

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  • Blue_Velvet

    Does he have a stressfull job? Maybe when he comes home he's tired and just wanna relax?

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  • ccjigsaw

    Well.. you are angry about it lol I can see that in your post, but I would be angry to cause it doesn't make sense. Guys would be to. You have to have a good reason to be doing weird shit, and that's pretty much weird. If he was like "Can we save it till later? I'm won't cdum as fast later" Or something like that, I'd be like "That's fine." But if he like, "We can finishb up later" I'd be like "???? I:|"

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  • myboyfriendsbitch

    Maybe he will cum too quick if y'all get it on in the heat of the moment.

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  • I don't know if that is normal for him. You should ask him. He might have a good reason.

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  • Mason334

    Girls you the elenebt of everything to do with relation ships sence guys wesil tips are as sensitive as the vag so relly it's you that makes relation ships

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  • Mason334

    And 100 percent of the time when shes horny it is epic

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  • Mason334

    Your the women in that relation ship and if they last then the women is in charge in my case it's wonderfull

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