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We've been together for 19 months. He slept with another woman 2 months into the relationship and wouldn't admit it till I threatened a polygraph test. It makes me wonder what else he is capable of lying about. I've probably asked him 200 times and he said he never cheated
he made a mistake very early in the relationship....i wonder if you can let it go, its hard
No, it's not normal. If you feel that you will not be able to handle this kind of relationship tell him so. However if you are in love and believe that he regrets and want to give your relationship a second chance, do it. People change, not often but some really do.
If he could do this and then keep it to himself for 17 months I'd not be able to trust this person again. Had he been honest RIGHT after and begged for my forgiveness I might ( MIGHT) have given him a chance to prove himself worthy of dating me again but chances are that he'd do it again. You can't trust him.
I really think the question here is; what relationship? A relationship must be based on trust and honesty, both of which seem to be lacking here. Perhaps in future posts you should call yourselves fuck buddies, but it doesn't sound much like even that will survive much longer.
Were ya'll supposed to be exclusive at the time he slept with the other woman? The determining factor on whether or not his behavior was cheating is whether or not there was a commitment at the two month mark.
NOT normal. He needs to be up front with you, he's clearly not interested in a monogamous relationship. Stay away from him if you are interested in being serious!
Best of luck to you.
I think its normal. I had someone tell me they were virgins and they werent.
you knew the whole time, otherwise you wouldnt have asked him 200 times. right?
Its your choice whether you get over it and move on. You let it be okay for 17 months. theres also a good chance, if he did it once he'll do it again.
he was fine with living his lie for 17 months. lol why not just continue?
I'm curious about the polygraph threat. How was that supposed to play out? Are you guys involved in some sort of reality show or something?
Also, cheating from two months in is not really normal if you're supposed to be in an exclusive relationship. Tough to come back from something like that, but not impossible...