Is it normal my boyfriend lets me dress this way?

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If my boyfriend let me dress provocatively in public, or didn't even care, does it mean he quite possibly doesn't care about ME?
I was raised with the belief that when you are taken, part of respecting that relationship is covering yourself up a bit.
Not dressing like you're single. In other words, trying to attract other men.
I'M MAINLY LOOKING FOR WHAT DO YOU MEN THINK ABOUT THAT? ANSWER HONESTLY PLEASE...

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  • Maya05
    11 years ago

    How does that mean he doesn't care about you? Maybe he doesn't want to be a controlling asshole by telling you what you should and shouldn't wear.

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  • dom180
    11 years ago

    It's good. He realizes that it's up to you to decide what you wear and that what you choose to wear has nothing to do with him.

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  • Mecki
    11 years ago

    Why do you dress that way? Maybe he trusts and respects you well enough to let you wear whatever you want! I don't understand why you would want to dress in a way that attracts other men, rather than wearing what makes you comfortable...

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      11 years ago

      I didn't, he thought that I had wore these semi see-thru leggings to my college class. I was like,"you would've been okay with me leaving the house wearing those!?" He didn't seem to care...

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      • Mecki
        11 years ago

        doesn't one usually wear something over leggings..? that's what I would have thought, anyway

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        • TheSecret
          11 years ago

          yeahthats what i thought too but now i see girls wearing them as pants. its fucking disgusting.

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          • NotCrazy-JustInsane
            9 years ago

            I totally agree! "It's all the rage" in my school......I just don't get it, it's like coming to school half naked! Maybe if you wear a long shirt that covers your bum, but not a normal length one! that's just.......It makes me sad to say it's my generation.......pantless

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          11 years ago

          Yeah, but I was just wearing a top, and hadn't changed it.

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  • VioletTrees
    11 years ago

    What do you mean, "lets you"? Your boyfriend shouldn't decide what you wear at all. You're a grown-ass woman.

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    • mrkrule
      9 years ago

      exactly

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  • americanhoney
    11 years ago

    Well, thank goodness he "lets" you.

    You fucking twit.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      11 years ago

      Okay for one, he doesn't ”let” me do anything, I do whatever the fuck I want to do. But it was the fact that he thought I had worn that and didn't say anything is what bothered me. You fucking idiot.

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  • Terence_the_viking
    11 years ago

    Maybe he likes showing you off.

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  • sorrybutyourabitch
    11 years ago

    It's because your a bitch and he's a bitch.

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    • SuperBenzid
      11 years ago

      It's you're. You even got it wrong in your username lol.

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  • mrkrule
    9 years ago

    It means he respects and trusts you. A guy who tried to tell me what to wear would't last long. Idk what you're so hung up about, you want a guy that is jealous and controlling?

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  • miss_belle
    11 years ago

    you should be thankful to have him..
    it means he loves and trust you enough...

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  • Skitzo1
    11 years ago

    Maybe he just wants you looking fiiiinneee. If your the type of person who moans at him for looking at other women, its good to wear revealing stuff, then he wont take his eyes of your "ta-tas". Or he cares about you so much, he wants to show you off as his prized possession!

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    It's a guy thing, he wants to be seen with a hot babe. Loves guys looking at his squeeze.

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  • Nokia
    11 years ago

    Maybe he likes seeing you in that type of clothing. Or maybe he just wants to respect your right to dress as you please. If it is really a problem, talk to him about it.

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