Is it normal my boyfriend is pressuring me to get breast implants!?!

I am a 24 year old woman that has been with my boyfriend for six months. He used to be a good guy, but recently, he's been comparing me to other chicks and saying that I should get breast implants because it turns him on. He's been saying that if I love him, I will. But I am very not comfy with getting a boobjob. I'm very tomboyish.

What should I do?

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  • newtdup

    I hate to be judgemental, but you're wasting time with a guy that thinks he'll love you more IF you get implants. That tells me he doesn't really love you for your personality. While I wouldn't suggest any comments about his body (unless they are how you truely feel), he's crazy, true love doesn't revolve around physical attributes. (if it did most of us guys would be sorely lacking esp. in facial good looks!!)If he loves you he won't be doing hurtful things, like making comparisons in a negative way. That is just plain WRONG! IMHO

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    • EatTheLivingFlesh

      Thanks man. Awesome advice!

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  • dappled

    Perhaps you could counter with "if you love me you wouldn't make me do something I don't want to do".

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  • Mando

    That's emotional black mail and a personal insult. Not saying what to do, but you can hardly ignore it.

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  • Don't get breast implants: that's what you should do.

    You obviously don't feel comfortable about it, and seem comfortable with yourself as you are (which is awesome!), and who knows how long this relationship will last (I think, not very, but who am I to say?), and it would be ridiculous on the face of it to have silicon stuffed into your body just because some boy wants you to, even some boy you're dating. In fact, even if you married him.

    A big signal here is that he says, "If you love me, you'll do this." There are some times when that's true ("If you love me, you'll put up with my crazy family from time to time"), but this just isn't one of them, and making your love for him conditional upon whether or not you get a boob job really shows that his love for you is conditional upon the size of your breasts. Which means it isn't love at all; and the fact that he would use "love" to get what he wants and manipulate you and make you feel good makes me really think you shouldn't be dating this guy.

    Anyway: don't get a boob job. You're fine how you are.

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    • EatTheLivingFlesh

      Thanks. Your answer, by far, is the most logical.

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      • Thanks. I try to be logical!

        Live long and prosper!! :)

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  • coffeebreath

    The only time you should get breast implants is if you want them. And you don't seem to want to, so tell him to get the implants himself if he wants them so badly.

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    • EatTheLivingFlesh

      Your answer was funny! Thanks!

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  • What? This is craziness. Tell him you don't want them. The fuck is wrong with this guy.

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    • EatTheLivingFlesh

      He is crazy, but I do love him and I want to make him happy. But I won't get a boobjob.

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      • I understand. :) I just don't like how he said, "If you love me you'll ___." That's manipulation and playing on how much you care about him and as you said "want to make him happy" Did you talk to him yet?

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        • EatTheLivingFlesh

          I already told him several times that I'm not getting them - yet he continues to ask. Maybe I should confront him.

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          • I think you should so he knows that you seriously don't want them and don't feel comfortable with it. Just tell him how you feel. :) I can't imagine him getting anything but upset that he has made you feel this way.

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            • EatTheLivingFlesh

              Okay. Great advice!

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  • cupcake_wants

    This guy doesnt deserve you

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  • curiouskate101

    omg!!! and your still together? its time to leave. thats his first step on trying to control you. a guy who really loves you wont try to change you. he'll love you for who you are not for something your not.

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  • kelili

    If you don't want to do it don't do it. You've been with him for only six months! Comparing you with other girl is very immature. When you love somebody you don't pressurise him to change, quite the contrary. I have very small boobs too and my boyfriend's exes all had generous pairs of breast but he never complained, never made a comment and he is always playing with my little boobs and kissing them. I would question his live

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    • EatTheLivingFlesh

      It's not immature, it's facts.

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  • Avant-Garde

    Don't do it!!! Tell him that if likes them so much, that he should get breast implants and stop living vicariously through other women's breast implants. Then, you leave him and never look back.

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  • MangoTango

    Is he paying for the whole thing?? Great.

    Really though, this story goes like this. You don't feel like it. No is your answer. Done deal. That is all. :-)

    If you need it, tell him you have an anesthesia allergy.

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  • Mersaphe

    He's normal, but you're overreacting. If he wants you to enlarge your breasts then you are obligated to so. After all he gave you free sex for 6 months fool

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  • jucedaguy

    I love them on the smaller side. IMO BIG ones are sloppy floppy and sweaty wastes of skin. Small cute perky ones for me! But I do have a thing for booty...

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  • princessjane

    does he really love you? come on. think! he do not really love you for what you are. he just like to fuck you. he do not need you instead he just need your body. dont waste your time with that guy. find new one that will accept you for who you are, what you are, and what you have.

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  • MissB617

    And I have 36D cup size, big boobs arent all they're cracked up to be.

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  • MissB617

    I'm also 24 and I dated a guy for 6 years and he often compared me to other girls too. It's one of the worst feelings in the world. I know by now its a cliche thing to say but leave that loser. There are guys out there that will love your body the way it is.

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  • Pen-island

    Tell him to stick his dick up his own ass.

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  • ccjigsaw

    I don't know if you know this, but 6 months isn't a long time. You can't even a baby in that time. Dump his sleazy ass :/

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  • Rondan

    I am guy and I like the real over fake.got to go with what feel right and if he not happy with that move on there alot of people out there

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  • NotFloydzie

    Tell him you'll get breasts implants if he gets a penis reduction. If he keeps on pressuring you, it's time to get another boyfriend.

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    • shuggy-chan

      or give him a dick reduction in his sleep

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  • dinz

    Well if you don't want to get implants, tell him you don't want them. He should accept your decision no matter what.

    or you could turn the tables on him and tell him to get a penis enlargement to see how it feels.

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  • Ugh69

    -1 all you want, your boobies are tiny insignificant nothings- as are you. Grow some tits!

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