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I've been with him over two years and I love him and he treats me great, but he doesn't make me horny. I'm 19 and I look at other guys and think about fucking them so I'm not asexual or anything. I can tell it hurts his feelings when I don't want to have sex. Help.
He wants to have sex, you never do with him. Clearly this isn't working out. I think you should talk to him about how important sex is for both of you. Then decide if you should part ways, because I highly doubt the relationship will hold if you just keep denying him.
Unfortunately it means you don't truly love him. Whenever I am with my boyfriend I get horny. He's the same way. With my first ex, I thought I loved him, but I wasn't happy after a year.
The answer to your question is obvious. You need a new boyfriend. I'm dead serious. If he doesn't turn you on now, he never will. Plenty of fish out there. Make your move and end it now. No sense dragging it out. It would be best for both of you in the long run.
it sounds like he's trying his best to be a good boyfriend but you just aren't interested in him in that way. if you were in a relationship with him in the first place then you must have liked something about him. try to remember what it was, whether it was his looks or personality. in my opinion he sounds like a nice guy but you might be looking for someone more fun and adventurous to make you excited, and there is nothing wrong with that.
You need to find the thing(s) that you both enjoy sexually. If anything. Talk about sex, roleplaying, crossdressing, dig deep into your fantasy spank bank and try talking with him about what would turn you on. Or figure out what it is about him that does not turn you on and work on that. Otherwise your relationship is based on the "Friend zone". Where you are better friends than mates. Ask yourself, Honest and for true- do you see you with him in 2 more years or 3 or 5.if I'm in relationship, I would hope that I would be able to turn her on instead of her going somewhere else, sucking another guys dick then come home and kissing me.