Is it normal my boyfriend does something like this to me? :/
A few weeks ago, I spent less than 4 hours with my boyfriend. The next day, 2 of my friends wanted to spend the evening together with me and my boyfriend (they're friends of both of us), but it's in the city where we all study so it takes almost 2 hours for me to get there (and I would have to spend the night in that city).
I have to take two trains to get there, one train for 35 minutes and the other for an hour. So I was on the first train when I got a message from my friend, she told me something happened and she couldn't be there anymore, so the other friend texted me that she also wouldn't go so me and my bf could spend the evening just the 2 of us. But I was already waiting for me second train when I saw that message.
So I called my boyfriend, told him the other girls couldn't go anymore, that I already was waiting for the 2nd train BUT he told me 'I'm sorry then I don't want to do something alone with you cause I already saw you yesterday', and I was disappointed :s so I told him if I would go home I would have packed my bag to sleep at his place and spend 35 minutes on the train, TWICE, just for nothing. He said 'so what, just go home, you can ride the train for free.' I was disappointed. But he just wanted to drink something with all of us together and didn't feel like having a romantic evening with me.
So I told him the other girl had to go babysitting with her little nephew and she would go to the movies with him (I couldn't go with her because I didn't have enough money), and suddenly he said: 'okay then I'll maybe call her to go to the movies together'. WTF???? So he lets me spend 70 minutes on a train (even when I told him I had to wait 2 hours for the train back home :/) because he wants to go out with a group of people, but then calls another girl to go to the movies with her, and that's okay. Oh and she asked me to go with, not him, so he wasn't invited but just asked if he could go in my place. Just because he saw me yesterday and it was 2 days since he saw that other girl. :/ Is this normal? Sorry for the long post!
Btw, things like this happen a lot, but small things. Like I saw him thursday and he promised me we'd see each other after school monay, but when I call him he sais, I'm sorry I had a busy weekend and don't feel like seeing you today.
And he asked me for some kind of prom, 2 days later he says okay I don't like to take you to the prom, it's a little too early (we're together for 1 year -.-), then he asks me again and says he had no idea why he said it was a bad idea the last time. But 3 days before the prom he said: "okay eventually I think it's a bad idea to take you to prom with me", so I didn't go, without knowing the exact reason why...