Is it normal my bf wants to do things to me he's never tried with anyone else?

*warning: explicit content

Things like sucking my toes, cum swapping, letting me pee on him/his mouth, tongue fucking my ass, post orgasm play, etc.

He's told me he's never wanted to do any of those things with his previous girlfriends, but loves me more than he's ever loved anyone and wants to try everything with me. Being the open-minded (and slightly freaky) girl I am, of course I'm more than willing to indulge him in his fantasies and am actually turned on by his eagerness to try them with me.

On a related note, would you say these things are normal? Would you try them or do you want to with your partner?

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70% Normal
Based on 30 votes (21 yes)
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Comments ( 11 )
  • Naamah

    That´s great that you are special for him in this way. If you are open-minded and slightly freaky, no wonder he wants to try those things with you despite the fact that he has never wanted to do them with his previous girlfriends. I find it pretty normal to want to try those or similar things. On the other hand it´s true that one can´t tell about such fantasies to anybody - quite a lot of people would be weirded out :( Don´t let opinions of such prudes bother you and enjoy what you want with your boyfriend.
    Actually, my boyfriend and I have tried various sexual activities or things which neither of us did or could do with our previous partners. He (and our relationship) is quite special for me and his open-mindedness in sexual matters and his willingness to try kinky things with me are among the things I like about him and appreciate very much. I can´t see any reason why you should hesitate or not fulfil your boyfriend´s fantasies if you are open to those things.

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  • DADNSCAL

    Nothing's abnormal if it's consensual between 2 people. Go for it, with the understanding that you can change your mind if some things aren't for you.

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  • ygrowup

    Seems you are a great match

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  • dappled

    I don't think those things are especially weird, as things go, although I can imagine many people not wanting to do any of them. What struck me as a bit odd is that he didn't want to indulge his fantasies with previous partners. Fantasies are pretty much independent of who you are with. Still, it doesn't sound like anything to worry about.

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  • Unimportant

    Lucky you.

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  • PumpkinKate

    I agree with the comments above as well. The fact that your boyfriend trusts you enough to tell you these things, which have sort of a negative social stigma against them, shows you that he believes you won't judge him for them - which means he trusts and respects you and feels that you will respect him back and hear him out.

    This is a wonderful thing! It's a good feeling to be able to tell someone you love and trust a secret you'd otherwise not feel safe telling anyone. I'm happy for you and your relationship, good job being such a wonderful girlfriend!

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  • Legion

    I agree with all of the above, (at the time of this typing) one of the best signs for true love there is.

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  • Thatguy777

    He obviously loves you more than anything in the world. He didn't trust the girls he used to be with enough to tell them his fantasies, but he trusts you because he loves you and he knows you love him. It seems as if you're enjoying it too, so you should be happy! Maybe he's the one!

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  • nightmare28

    Just take a good shower before getting a rim job.

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  • x1frosty16

    Means he trusts you

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  • Terence_the_viking

    He feels comfortable with you.

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