Is it normal my bf wants dry hump but not have sex

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So I met a freind I new online recently. They thought I was a different gender online. I am vague online about my gender. So we met in person and they like "you cute I want to date you". So I said sure alright. However they a Catholic Virgin. Which I find wierd since they into like stuff about the devil and very like bisexual. Anyways they say they don't want to have sex because they catholic but want me blow them, give hand job and try dry humping when I barely kiss them. This is very awkward and I feel like sex makes more sense. Should I break up? Is any of this normal.

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  • techpc
    2 years ago

    He sounds like a sleazebag. Sounds like he wants an all-take relationship if he didn't want to pleasure you at all.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      2 years ago

      I mean I am asexual and they said they are too. So like I not really into sex that much. I also find them saying they are Christian dumb since a BJ and handjob are still asking for sex. Which its one thing if someone offers that as alternative to home base sex. However, wanting it everytime one kisses is annoying honestly

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      • techpc
        2 years ago

        Asexual yet he desires sexual acts. Hm. Get away from this guy, he's lying to you.

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      • RoseIsabella
        2 years ago

        This awful guy is just telling you what he thinks you want to hear. He's NOT a good person. The fact that he said he's asexual too just proves that he's a straight up liar. DON'T TRUST HIM!!!

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  • RoseIsabella
    2 years ago

    This person is a liar, a manipulator and a someone that you cannot trust. I would highly recommend that you forget about this hypocritical dirtbag!

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  • jrbsportz
    2 years ago

    People just dont get sex is sex blowjob.handjob anal or anything else you do with another person or even by yourself is sex and your not a virgin it's bullshit.

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  • 1WeirdGuy
    2 years ago

    There was a private christian school in my town growing up and some of the girls only did anal sex. Idk how that is justified because sodomy is said to be bad in the bible. Kinda funny

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    • Boojum
      2 years ago

      Silly weirdo!

      They were obviously saving the precious flower of their virginity for the One True And Eternal Love who Jeebus would eventually introduce them to. Everybody knows that a woman can honestly say that she hasn't REALLY had sex if she's only had a dick in her hand, mouth and anus. Jeebus's Sin Detector doesn't start squawking away in heaven when a woman does those things, so he doesn't even notice.

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      • Grunewald
        2 years ago

        Boojum, you're someone I tend to respect because you normally reply in a helpful way. But I find this unnecessarily disparaging.

        OP's Catholic guy is clearly a lying hypocrite, but there are many Christian women like me who are really trying to save themselves for a future marriage in conscience because we want to.

        If Jesus means nothing to you and you don't believe in him, it costs you nothing to refrain from calling him stupid names and making fun of him, whereas to me and people like me, it feels like hearing a member of my family being insulted.

        Of course I'm not going to turn around and insult your family back; that would be pointless. But can you understand that being expected to just take this is the kind of thing that stokes up resentment between groups of people? I think everyone can agree - religious or not - that we all need more peace.

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  • CockSuckerRacheal69
    2 years ago

    Suck His Dick more often

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