Is it normal my bf turns everything into sex

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My bf and I live a few hours from each other and have not had sex. We are both at the age where people get more serious about marriage and have agreed that is probably where we are headed. I love his sensual side. We have such intense magnetism to one another that it's almost breathtaking. We are both extremely passionate people by nature. However, here lately I'm getting repelled by his recent tendency to try and turn everything sensual whenever we talk. 30 seconds cannot pass by without him saying things that make me feel like a meat sack. I know he doesn't see me that way, but it's becoming so annoying and idk what to do about it without wounding his ego. He's starting to feel that something is awkward as well. I know he feels some kind of vibe coming from me but he's still clueless. What's the deal?
I'm getting completely sick of it.

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  • Myghoul2099
    8 years ago

    you should simply tell him what you told us. it's not fair to get mad at him more and more over time for something you never explained to him.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      8 years ago

      Agreed. I just don't want him to take it wrong. Thanks.

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  • Tealights
    8 years ago

    Don't do that pouting, and waiting until he figures it out on his own nonsense. That's how resentment builds.

    Also, you're a grown woman, use your words. Like yourself, men aren't mind readers. You need to talk to him and explain what you're uncomfortable with.

    If you two are really considering marriage, then work on your communication skills, because there's going to be a lot of annoying things he (and you) will do that will require a calm discussion. If either of each others' feelings get hurt, then talk those out as well.

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  • Navilluschizo
    8 years ago

    I see nothing wrong with lemons. his actions are lemons.

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    • nevertoreturn
      8 years ago

      What the heck are you talking about..?

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  • RamennoodleMaster
    8 years ago

    turn it less into an act and more into a ritual of love, that way the both of you get satisfaction out of that.

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  • RamennoodleMaster
    8 years ago

    i wish i could find a girlfriend that does that....

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  • 53739
    8 years ago

    I just think he might be a bit sex obsessed. I am a guy and I don't think about sex all the time, and I enjoy little things like being cute, holding hands, kissing, hugging, and licking to be just as good and intimate as sex.

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