Is it normal my bf takes advantage of me?

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hi, i am in a relationship for 5 months, i am 21 ....my bf always make me to pay for everything when we r goin out, even when we have date he invites me for movie or somewhere i have to pay!!! isn't funny? its painfull for me!!! i am not in a good financial situation!!!but his parents protecting him and he is working! i am a student so when i get angry or want to break up he is crying and saying that i love u!!!! i don need these kinda love!!!!i think that i pay for my son not bf!!!! i am not saying that he pays for me, just pay for ur self!!! plz help me and give me suggestions!!!!

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Just_feed_me_Troll_Meat

12 years ago

Me sense english not first language here. Me get headache reading, need lie down now.

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mexiguytex87

12 years ago

You've allowed yourself to be taken advantage of. My brother is the same way with his girlfriend, I hope you know he probably gloats to his friends about it. Some boys can be asses you should break the cycle, no one deserves to put up with such bull, a man would pay for you without hesitation, and never have you pay for him

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joybird

12 years ago

Why do you keep paying for him?

Definitely stop paying him for his company!

He sounds like a male prostitute / sponger!

It's a rotten quality in a person.

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Avant-Garde

12 years ago

He's a cheap mama's boy. He won't learn unless he gets a wake up call. Get another boyfriend. One that's more considerate and willing to split The bill.

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ready2rumble

12 years ago

God! He is a mamma's boy, get rid of the kid

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Coconutsss

12 years ago

Find someone more understanding and treats u better than that

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4theloveofdez

12 years ago

It's normal that he does that not its not RiGHT. If a person is getting a free pass to things if course they'll try to ride it out. At first he was probably grateful now is he obviously taking advantage. ditch him, you deserve better.

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[Old Memory]

12 years ago

I agree with all the above comments... He's not worth it... Leave his ass.

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InsertUniqueUserName

12 years ago

Get rid of that git.

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kellstar79

12 years ago

Selfish boyfriends need to be kicked to the curb!!

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kittylitter101

11 years ago

You should really speak English when you write your paragraphs. Remember "text talk" isn't actually a language.

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Alison89

12 years ago

If I read this using Tonto's voice in my head, I'm entertained. Otherwise, it gives me a headache.

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- NeuroNeptunian
  
  12 years ago
  
  I imagined a friend of mine who is very bad with speech and sounds half retarded, I believe she is 21 as well. But she has two kids.
  
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  - Alison89
    
    12 years ago
    
    Aww... I feel bad for your friend now!
    
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    - NeuroNeptunian
      
      12 years ago
      
      I would but I never understand what the fuck she is saying. I had to stop hanging out with her because I kept giving inappropriate responses to what she said because her speech was near incoherent and when I did understand her, it sounded stupid like
      "omg qut complining bout my kids nd jus wach dem i wn party tonit i havnt clubbd in 2 weks i got b me y u mad i pregnet"
      I almost cried from having to hold back from commenting on how utterly stupid she sounded.
      
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NoraBaker

12 years ago

Find yourself another boyfriend!!!

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