Is it normal my bf is flirty with other girls and i feel betrayed and more..

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I am very confusing and sad. I have been feeling blue for a while since I caught my boyfriend of 1 year and a half flirt around on internet, facebook and instragram like he gave other girls compliment that they are gorgeous and beautiful. He does it a lot! I confronted him and it still happened. I was gonna let him go find whatever he is looking for. I might be not his type. but he said sorry and I forgave him. We are happy together. He loves me thats what he said to me at least.

Is it normal for guys to jerk around internet while in a relationship? He said he wants to be in relationship though I asked if he wants to break up with me. I was gonna give up. This hurt my feeling.

Seem like he thinks its not a big deal. But it is to me. I have lower self esteem. I want him but i don't know if he wants me physically anymore :(. I am healthy and I enjoy what we do together. I pleased him in everyway. I think I am doing my best as a girlfriend can be. I share ,help and care . We are not living together. We just spend time on weekends together. I had been trusting him but he ruined it.

I just wanna hear you guys opinion or anyone share any experience would be appreciated.

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  • ProseAthlete
    10 years ago

    It should be a big deal to you. You deserve better treatment than someone who regularly and openly flirts with other people. If he truly is flirting -- not just assuring some female friend who said she looked bad in a picture that no, she was in fact really beautiful or something equally innocuous -- then dump his ass!

    Men will look at other women. They'll look at them in porn, they'll notice them on the streets, they'll pay extra attention to certain actresses -- some way or another, they will look. How you see that depends on you, but to me, it isn't inherently disrespectful to notice that other women are pretty. Where it crosses the line is if he approaches other women and tells them they're beautiful unsolicited. If he's doing that, he isn't just being an ass to you; he's also being kind of a creep to other women.

    Run. Run from that.

    Love should not be "I do everything he wants me to do and please him in every way possible, but he still doesn't treat me with respect." That puts you on a lower level than him, a supplicant who's hoping to win favor rather than an equal partner.

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  • moomus
    10 years ago

    ^^this

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  • 53739
    8 years ago

    I think you should just get over it. Boys will be boys.

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  • MissDethstar
    10 years ago

    I don't want to judge him too quickly but usually when men do that they do not stop. Talking to him about it would be a great idea and if he is a respectful guy and he care about you maybe he'll stop. But from experiences they do not stop, it just give them a good reason to hide it carefully. At the end of the day it depends if you can accept it or not.
    Your pain is completely normal by the way. I wish you good luck.

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  • Terence_the_viking
    10 years ago

    The only thing you can do is Talk to him if that doesn't work you do the same.

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  • Alexis223
    10 years ago

    you need to stand up for yourself! confront him again! and again until he gets it! if he doesnt then you dont deserve to be treated like that and he doesnt deserve you! if he really did love you he would do anything for you and that inclueds not flirting with other girls!!

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  • americanhoney
    10 years ago

    Grow up

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